Aww hell not u too.. I'm so sorry.. My disaster isnt over yet either.
Email me at lenina_crowne[at]hotmail.Com

When did you have a miscarrage?

I have never even been pregnant before but I hope I can offer something.I am so sorry for what has happened and do not (caps) believe you did anything to deserve this or are being punished. Never think that. My cousin had 6 miscarriages and her 7th child went to 7 months was born prematurely but she lived and still breathes to this day 33 years later. I do not understand how you feel but I can try and all I can say is dont blame yourself. It was his way of saying it just was not meant to be this time but it will again.....

Meg

Jill, I started loosing the baby 2 days ago now, at first I thought it was implantation bleeding, but its not.
I really just dont know how to get past this.
I am so upsetabout loosing the baby, but it is some thing that I cant stop....
But I dont know that I can handle a d&c, it just makes it so final..... Right now I can still try to convince my self that it will stop, that the baby is fine, but that is final, there is no kidding after that, and I cant handle that. I may not have wanted this baby at first, but I want it now, I have gotten used to the idea and started to enjoy being preggers again, all I want to do is curl up in my mans arms but he is away in the gulf, I didnt even get to talk to him to tell him that we had lost the baby, I had to send him a really email, this couldnt have happened at a worse time............ Sorry I just needed to air.....

Im am so sorry for you loss. I have had miscarriage before not the way you had yours but I have had one before. It was hard but I can tell you things that I did. It takes times a lady I talked to told me to write a letter to my unborn child give it a name and tell it how you really wanted it in your life. That may help but if you ever want to talk im here. Its just going to take some time sweetie.


Chrystal

*hugz* im so sorry....I hope that you get better

I am so sorry

I thank you all for your support, I still can not make myself believe that this has happened to me, some times I have to remind myself that I am no longer pregnant, like a friend asked if I wanted to sit down and have a few drinks and talk and I was almost about to tell her no because I never drink when I am pregnant, and then I realised that I could, but I didnt want to any way, the hardest part is when cailey comes up and says, hello baby to my belly and it is just not there any more, how the hell am I ment to explain that to her , how long do I have to feel this bad, why cant I just feel normal again?

Im sooo sorry:(.. How far along were u and how old r u? Did u end up going to the doctor? Hun, u didnt do anything to deserve this, no one does.. It just happens unfortunatly. Im so sorry it happened to u!

How many weeks were you? Just try to remember that everything happens for a reason. The reason may not be clear now but good will come from your pain. I suggest giving the baby a name and writting him/her a letter. Just get those emotions out.

Hey everyone...I guess this is my chance to post a reply about something that I know all too well of. I dont know if any of you remember me but I used to come on here as mommy2b19. Well, of cource you can see my name has changed to mommy2anangel....I lost my precious child on march 13th. I was hospitalized for 4 days and they were trying to induce labor because my baby had no heart beat. My body hung on to the pregnancy (the placenta thought that the baby was still alive so it wouldnt allow me to "miscarry") through all the inductions and eventually on the 3rd day I had a d&e. I was 5 months pregnant and the most happy girl in the world with my pregnancy. I loved being pregnant....And there is no worse pain than the loss of your own child. Like the other girl said..I dont know how I am going to get through this either...But I guess with love and support it will eventually get easier. ..
thanks for taking the time to read this
danielle

Im so sorry about your loss, thats so terrible I hope everything is going ok for you, you angel is watching down on you!
~christina

Xxxx

Hey hun,
i know how hard this must be on you I had a miscarriage when I was 12 and a half weeks. It was an unplanned pregnancy but I did in the end love having that baby and I was devastated when I lost it. It was hard for me to realize I wasnt pregnant anymore either becuz of the sudden loss. Im sorry u had to go thru this. How far along were u? My sis had a m/c at 9 weeks and a week later got pregnant again, but that pregnancy is now 22 weeks along and shes doing good. Mine is now 28 weeks and ive had no problems. I hope u can get thru this.
im sorry again for ur loss and I hope time will heal im sorry to hear about ur excited daughter also... I wouldn't know how to explain it to her other than telling her that baby went to heaven a little early to watch over her and you. I hope u do okay


shauna