My parents wedding is coming up and I asked my boyfriend "what colors do you think I should wear for the wedding?"

He said red. Then it hit me. At his moms house there is a pic of him and his babymomma at a ball. He.s wearing black tux and she's wearing a red dress lol when I had first seen the pic I got emotional, but the worst thing was that his lil sister compared me to her and that hurt. It wasn't the lil girls fault so I didn't get mad.

Now I laugh about it cause I glance at it and I say to myself "atleast I look better than her." lol harmless jealous girlfriend feelings lol when he said red I told him how about red and black cause I wouldn't want to wear something similar to what she was wearing. He flew off the hook... He got mad, called me childish and dumb for thinking that way. What hurt was instead of saying something like don't worry baby forget her
you.ll look great he goes and lashes out at me. Do you guys think I did wrong by telling him that I didn't want to wear what she was wearing? I know he.s a guy and wouldn't try to understand how I felt. Cause he.s stubborn anyways. I need a guys point of view too please !!