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Lynn1

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My Boyfriend Wants Me to Talk Dirty During Sex?
Posted: 10-28-07 20:26pm

My boyfriend wants me to talk dirty during sex but I don't know how to start or even what to say. I can do it over the phone and on text messaging but during sex I just don't know how or what to say. Can anyone help me or give me some ideas.... Exclamation Exclamation Exclamation Exclamation
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young Girl

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Posted: 10-28-07 20:27pm

lol

let it come naturally
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Lynn1

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Posted: 10-28-07 20:29pm

I'm afraid i'm just going to say something stupid and get embarrassed. I honestly think i would enjoy sex more if I would quit thinking about it so much
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young Girl

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Posted: 10-28-07 20:31pm

just dont think hun

like i said it will come naturally
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Georgia59

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Posted: 10-28-07 20:31pm

I have the same problem. I just feel extremely stupid talking dirty and refuse to do it, it makes me too self-conscious and weird. I don't know. He eventually stopped asking, I found other tricks to keep him occupied. Wink
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courtney_shayne

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Posted: 10-28-07 20:37pm

just let it come natraully,, ask him to begin,, i find it fun,, it adds a bit of spice to ur sex life!
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Lynn1

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Posted: 10-28-07 20:46pm

Georgia what are some of your tricks that you keep him occupied..
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sillysallie1990

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Posted: 10-29-07 00:00am

lol tell him that you are willing to try but dont know where to start... ask him to start... because everybodies idea of dirty talk is different and having him start will give you an idea of what he really wants.
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Georgia59

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Posted: 10-29-07 09:13am

Just try something new to surprise him so he's not even thinking about what you're saying. I guess it depends on how open you are, something as easy as a new technique for oral or hand jobs, bringing in porn or toys, etc. Whatever you're curious about lol.
Sallie's suggestion was good though, tell him to start and just pick it up from there. Hmm... maybe I'll try it.....
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sillysallie1990

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Posted: 10-29-07 09:21am

lol i just know this because my boyfriend likes me to be quite dom in bed and you would never know that by looking or talking to him so when he started the dirty talk lol i got the idea... you would never guess that a big guy like him would get off on the i dea of being somebodies b****. but i am guessing that alot of men wouldnt like this soo have him go first and ask him what turns him on...
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Rosie H

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Posted: 10-29-07 09:27am

Say it when you mean it. I sometimes talk dirty, but I have to be really turned on or on a mission to get him really turned on, but its taken me a while to get to that comfort level. Do it when you feel comfortable. I do it now because I enjoy it
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Georgia59

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Posted: 10-29-07 09:38am

I have only remotely come close to talking dirty when I'm desperate and trying to seduce him lol.
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fefe1989

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Posted: 10-30-07 07:51am

dont know if this is what ur lookinfro but u could say someting like "medical question me" but do it in areally raunchy, sex freak sort of way, and do it repeatedly. but if you dont wanna talk dirty DO something that you think is dirty lik etie him up and hav your way with him. and I do MEAN have YOUR way with him
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steph7985

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Posted: 08-23-08 00:07am

Wow I wish my husband wanted me to talk dirty. We just do not do that. You should feel lucky.LOL.
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