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Q: Is He Ready? Or Just Waiting. Im Confused
asked by: heart on October 27th, 2007
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Ok My realtionship is going wonderful, im wondering if hes ready to ever settle down?

Ok We have been together for about 3 years and we have an apartment together, i always have to remind him to somtimes give me flower or to do stuff with me. Its kinda frusterating, i mean i do a lot for him i cook clean, and work overtime!

I guess i just dont think he wants to move further, i mean i've asked him but its always..."you know i love you" and "we need to save money" and well i know we need to do so, he buys stuff that we dont need like a new game or somthing. But anyways what do you all think?

im not being selfish but shouldnt a person get somthing nice for her birthday? lol i got nothin, and i don''t mind. but i kinda do. arg anyway..
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heart
replied on October 27th, 2007
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sweet so i guess my topic isnt interesting. ah well have a great day everyone...
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CoolGlassofH2O
replied on October 27th, 2007
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Well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 1 mnth. We have been living together for about 5mnths. Right now he.s got a lot of financial trouble so I'm helping him out while he starts his new job and gets back on his feet. It does get hard cause I get home sometimes at 10pm and I still cook, try to clean, etc. So my work is never done lol sometimes I feel like he doesn't notice and I let him know how I feel. That.ll usually get him to help around the house. Your not being selfish you deserve to be appreciated. Sometimes feel like me and my guy aren't on the same page. Specially when it comes to kids lol I want to have a baby when in around 26 28 still young. He wants to wait till he's 30 or older Sad and it sucks cause what if we had an accident. Lol but I keep telling myself I'm not gonna give that up jus because he says so. My point is stay true to yourself and if you guys aren't on the same page you really need to sit down and talk
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blondie_899
replied on October 28th, 2007
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You didn't get anything for your birthday? That is really sad im sorry he could at least gotten you a card.If you have to remind him to do sweet things for you then that isn't a good sign.Tell him exactly how you feel.If he isn't ready to move on for awhile then maybe you should re think your relationship.Afterall you can't wait forever.
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replied on October 28th, 2007
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i wouldnt rethink my realationship, he might just be not romantic or what not. im sure things will happen when we are financially stable. Thanks everyone
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