Please! Even you state, "milk is in everything." lactose intolerant people (like me) have known this for years! Milk and milk by-products (like whey) are indeed in many foods. So, it seems rather than being an anomaly, your severe allergy is again, proof you were previously exposed, (probably many times) only to find later in life, all of a sudden, you're allergic. You cetainly didn't have to be drinking milk all those years to be allergic now! Oh, and by-the-way, did you never have any milk as a baby or growing up as a kid?! [and, its a proven medically researched fact: you display allergic symptoms only to that which you are now exposed, to something you were previously exposed. ] some people ask, "how can a new-born be allergic to mother's milk"? Simple! Before the baby was born, it was exposed to many things while in the womb!