Joined: 25 Oct 2007 Posts: 2 Location: Southland, 8001 New Zealand
Seeking Opinion : Partner interested in Threesome Posted: 10-25-07 22:51pm
I am a 53yrs happy peoples person, Widowed
at 40yrs after 18yrs marriage. Remarried
at 42yrs and and choosed to divorce due to
interuption of his X/partner after a happy
8yrs not in my original country of birth.
I Have been having a relationship with a
widower who is 59yrs for a year. He has
high sexual desire which I understand. He
had also visited a couple who he had said
that they had let him watch having sex and
she has given him a blow job while her
husband was in action.
He told me that he had only a few year
left and want to experience threesome or
in couples. He had been suggesting that
he want me in the preformance but I had
told his that I am a one man women. If he
has the desire, I dont want to know,see or
any part of it at all. He told me he
love me and want to be honest. I cant
understand what sort of a man will say he
love you and let another screw me.
Thou, we live together and have sex at
least 4 times a week. I am quit confused.
Anyone out there who could help me clear
the picture.
Thanks
I guess
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-25-07 22:58pm
Your poll is very useless.
Personally, I would never engage in a
threesome+, because I too am a one-man
woman. I don't have a desire to have
anyone else in the bedroom. If that is
what you feel, then put your foot down.
Just because you are older and he is older
doesn't mean you have to throw away your
personal morals.
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Fairy Godmother
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Kick His Ass to the Curb Posted: 10-25-07 23:09pm
Life is too short to fall for these men
who claim to love you and only you......on
down the road they "discover' they have
desires and want you"their darling other"
to help perform these acts with them or
for thme....if you love me you will do
this.........take your ass on to the house
casue its not gonna happen. You are far
too good for this and I totlly
understand.Its you and him or no one...if
he can't accept this, bye bye bye and find
a good man who is happy with you and will
build his world around you only....they
are out there. I aint' sharing with no
one! Don;t let the screen door hit him on
his way out! Proud of you girlfriend!
Stand up for yourself!
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victoria Bartlett
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Thats Some Crazy Stuff Posted: 10-26-07 00:42am
I think this man is going through a mid
life whatever! Does he really think that
watching you with someone else is a turn
on for him? My ex boyfriend always wanted
to see me do it with another women! Why?
Don't belittle yourself for no man. Stay
strong!!!!!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-26-07 10:05am
If you're not comfortable, and he can't
just accept that you're not comfortable
and stay with only you, that's a problem.
He should respect your wishes.
Tell him you're willing to spice up sex in
other ways, but only between the two of
you.
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Birch
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Posted: 10-26-07 20:38pm
Well, at least he's an honest man. And he
trusts you. He wants to include you,
instead of lying and cheating. So he's
not such a big jerk. *shrugs*
However you should only do what is most
comfortable for you.
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Breizzy
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Joined: 25 Oct 2007 Posts: 40 Location: ,
Posted: 10-27-07 18:19pm
Birch
wrote:
Well, at least he's an
honest man. And he trusts you. He wants
to include you, instead of lying and
cheating. So he's not such a big jerk.
*shrugs*
However you should only do what is most
comfortable for
you.
I totally agree. IF you aren't
comfortable.. i would tell him this.
If you are comfy about it.. then that's
fine too.
Everyone has to figure out what is best
for them.
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I guess
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Joined: 25 Oct 2007 Posts: 2 Location: Southland, 8001 New Zealand
Thank You Posted: 11-03-07 00:48am
I must say its so fantastic to have
opinion from all as it has made me feel
stronger and yes, to all out there. I
have decided that it is not my plate of
food and he will have to go if that is a
world he think is his but not mine and
thank you again to all
