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Q: Seeking Opinion : Partner interested in Threesome
asked by: I guess on October 25th, 2007
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I am a 53yrs happy peoples person, Widowed at 40yrs after 18yrs marriage. Remarried at 42yrs and and choosed to divorce due to interuption of his X/partner after a happy 8yrs not in my original country of birth.
I Have been having a relationship with a widower who is 59yrs for a year. He has high sexual desire which I understand. He had also visited a couple who he had said that they had let him watch having sex and she has given him a blow job while her husband was in action.

He told me that he had only a few year left and want to experience threesome or in couples. He had been suggesting that he want me in the preformance but I had told his that I am a one man women. If he has the desire, I dont want to know,see or any part of it at all. He told me he love me and want to be honest. I cant understand what sort of a man will say he love you and let another screw me.

Thou, we live together and have sex at least 4 times a week. I am quit confused. Anyone out there who could help me clear the picture.

Thanks
I guess
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Tylanas
replied on October 25th, 2007
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Your poll is very useless.

Personally, I would never engage in a threesome , because I too am a one-man woman. I don't have a desire to have anyone else in the bedroom. If that is what you feel, then put your foot down. Just because you are older and he is older doesn't mean you have to throw away your personal morals.
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Fairy Godmother
replied on October 25th, 2007
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Kick His Ass to the Curb
Life is too short to fall for these men who claim to love you and only you......on down the road they "discover' they have desires and want you"their darling other" to help perform these acts with them or for thme....if you love me you will do this.........take your ass on to the house casue its not gonna happen. You are far too good for this and I totlly understand.Its you and him or no one...if he can't accept this, bye bye bye and find a good man who is happy with you and will build his world around you only....they are out there. I aint' sharing with no one! Don;t let the screen door hit him on his way out! Proud of you girlfriend! Stand up for yourself!
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victoria Bartlett
replied on October 26th, 2007
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I think this man is going through a mid life whatever! Does he really think that watching you with someone else is a turn on for him? My ex boyfriend always wanted to see me do it with another women! Why? Don't belittle yourself for no man. Stay strong!!!!!
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Georgia59
replied on October 26th, 2007
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If you're not comfortable, and he can't just accept that you're not comfortable and stay with only you, that's a problem. He should respect your wishes.

Tell him you're willing to spice up sex in other ways, but only between the two of you.
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Birch
replied on October 26th, 2007
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Well, at least he's an honest man. And he trusts you. He wants to include you, instead of lying and cheating. So he's not such a big jerk. *shrugs*
However you should only do what is most comfortable for you.
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Breizzy
replied on October 27th, 2007
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Birch wrote:
Well, at least he's an honest man. And he trusts you. He wants to include you, instead of lying and cheating. So he's not such a big jerk. *shrugs*
However you should only do what is most comfortable for you.


I totally agree. IF you aren't comfortable.. i would tell him this.
If you are comfy about it.. then that's fine too.
Everyone has to figure out what is best for them.
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I guess
replied on November 3rd, 2007
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Thank You
I must say its so fantastic to have opinion from all as it has made me feel stronger and yes, to all out there. I have decided that it is not my plate of food and he will have to go if that is a world he think is his but not mine and thank you again to all
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