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Q: a New Beginning From a Tragic End
asked by: Jessika Adriana on April 3rd, 2004
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I know that most of you are still irate with me about what I did, but I did what I did as a healing tactic and so that I wouldn’t fully lose my daughter. God has finally shown mercy on my misery and granted me the chance to prove that I will be a great mom. I am pregnant!!!! I have proof too! I will be happy to share with all of you if you wish! Well I am still not going to come on here, but I love all of you like my family! And once my mom has alexia(in june) I am sure to be busy and everything so I wanted to let you all know.

Much love,
jessika and mommy’s blessing
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KariM18
replied on April 3rd, 2004
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Umm I didnt hear the whole story. .But will u tell me it? Werent u a fake?
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smith8500
replied on April 3rd, 2004
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Well
Congrats on the real pregnancy. I hope you have better luck this time around.
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Jessika Adriana
replied on April 3rd, 2004
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Long story short, last july I ended up losing my baby girl at 17 weeks. My mom said that in order to help me face my pain I should name her and talk about my feelings. I named her cheyenne. Instead of using my moms advice to help move on I couldn’t seem to let go of the fact that I had lost my baby girl and that I wasn’t going to be a mom, so I “pretended” that my daughter was still here. It got harder once my mom and my babies father’s new girlfriend both became pregnant, so I drove myself deeper into my play land, that I actually started to believe what I wrote. Anyway I have been in regular counseling and moha classes for the last 2 months and its beginning to help and I found out to my surprise that I am indeed pregnant. My mom is running tests on me today to see how far long I am.

Jessika and mommy’s blessing


thank you very much chanda!
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insurancegirl
replied on April 3rd, 2004
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KariM18
replied on April 3rd, 2004
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Well I dont know if I find it to be a full excuse to lie about something liek that.. .But im sorry about the condition and glad your doing better and u seem happy about your pregnancy. How old r u tho? And also, your mom is running tests to find out how far?
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Jessika Adriana
replied on April 3rd, 2004
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I am 18, she is running all my tests, she is an obgyn, so she is finding out how far long I am, my blood pressure, checking scar tissue in my uterus, etc. Well I am off, ttyl!

Jess
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kitty_55
replied on April 3rd, 2004
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Congats on ur pregancey. I hope everything is fine this time with you..I am just wondering was seana fake?? I still don't know!!
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on April 3rd, 2004
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Jessika- as you know you and I got very close over time. I looked up to you and you looked up to me. I would like to say congratulations on your pregnancy. And I am sorry for everything that you went through. You know, as you have seen the other cases, that it is going to be hard to work through this but I am willing. Send me a message and let me know what is up. I mean who is the babies daddy? All that good stuff. And to start, where are you really from? Send me a message soon and let me know. You were a great "pretender".. Rolling Eyes

stacie & seany & larry

yahoo: mommy2seany
aol: mesmerizeu16
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smith8500
replied on April 3rd, 2004
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Hey
Yea, jess, you were the best and you know it..... I can't help but still love you so much though. You were a lot of help!
Remember me on yahoo: kacy42818
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on April 3rd, 2004
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Who could forget you chanda bear
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Jessika Adriana
replied on April 4th, 2004
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Ok here is the info….
Name: jessika-adriana gabrielle masour
age: 18
date of birth: january 12, 1986
location: scottsdale, az
profession: clerk at law office
school: high school senior at a private academy
boyfriend: not really dating him anymore, but tom is the baby’s daddy
my mom: christine-36 yrs, 30 weeks 5 days pregnant with alexia-marie kathryn dante
my dad: disappeared before I was born
my mom’s boyfriend: patrick dante-47 yrs, father of 4, expecting the 5th(alexia-marie)
the kids: samuel- 15 yrs, brendan- 13 yrs, kaitilyn- 7 yrs and brittian- 3 yrs
my children: my daughter, cheyenne naomi thryse- sent to heaven july 22, 2003
expecting: mommy’s blessing november 16th, 2004
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insurancegirl
replied on April 4th, 2004
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JillMarie
replied on April 4th, 2004
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I never really knew you before but congrats on your baby! I hope everything goes good for you! I dont think most people would mind if you stick around here! Smile
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Jessika Adriana
replied on April 4th, 2004
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insurancegirl wrote:
so your mom had you young, is that y you wanted a baby so bad? Or was it because your father wasn't around. Do you still pretend chey is around? Did you "have" chey around your "real" fam & friends or was it just here? Are you still counceling? Just wanted to know!


Jennifer Laughing


i talked about her like she was in present tense with everyone, they all just stopped correcting me after about a month. I think I just loved the thought of having my little girl that I couldn't let it go and now with this baby I am just so happy. I am still in counseling!

Jess
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shortee913
replied on April 4th, 2004
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Jess...
I was really pissed off at you when I found out thatu weren't who u said u were... Although you did this I still can't help but thnak you for helping me out. I am glad u came on to explain why u did what u did and I am sorry for ur loss and congratulate u on ur gain. If you ever need anything I will always be here for u talk to.... U were my girl and still will be.. I just hope u are being truthful this time around... Well i'll update u on me... I am doing good getting big, the end of the month and james will be here.. I moved in with jimmy in january and we are living happily ever after! ( so far)lol! I have pics of the babies room if u wanna see em just hit me up k girlie! Well talk to you soon, take care and god bless....

Much love,
sami
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gypy04
replied on April 4th, 2004
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Congrats on your pregnancy! Hope everything works out!
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kitty_55
replied on April 4th, 2004
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Jessika what is ur yahoo id?
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smith8500
replied on April 4th, 2004
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Hey
Alison,
it's mommytocheynaomi
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