Based on my experience, I found that Adderral tends to make some kids more aggressive. A lot of psychiatrists are avoiding that medication for younger children.
It is a very difficult decision for parents when they are faced with the medication issue. The greatest frustration is trying to find a medication that works. Currently, parents have no other choice but to live through the "trial and error" hell. In the end, it is usually worth it. It sounds like Brian is doing great on Concerta! I hope you weren't faced with the trial and error experience for too long.
It is extremely hard to parent children who suffer from ADHD and difficult for the children who are going through it. Unless you have it yourself or parent someone who does, it's so hard to understand what a day to day struggle it truly is. Everyone has attention difficulties now and then but this is just so much more than that.
Michelle, you will most likely become an "expert" on parenting ADHD children and will most likely help other parents. Most parents I work with who parent children with ADHD are extremely resourceful and come up with such creative ideas to help their children succeed at school. How is he doing at school??
Suzy, your brothers experience was the extreme. Did the psychiatrist keep increasing his meds?? I would really question that doctor. When stimulant meds make an individual tired, then he was over medicated. I can completely understand why you feel the way you do and why your brother is angry.