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Giving Up Posted: 10-25-07 04:05am
I realised I am getting way to obsessed
with TTC and it's only my first month! I
decided I'm going to take a test on
Saturday morning to make sure I am not
(it's my best friends wedding and I may be
drinking on the evening)
I'm just going to keep BDing with OH in
December and I'm not going to track, test
or anything
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rosejackson
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Posted: 10-25-07 05:54am
that may be a good idea hun because you
might just get disappointed every month.
when the times right, it will happen
good luck for testing saturday. hope you
get pregnant really quickly hun x
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Becky
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Joined: 01 Jan 2006 Posts: 6225 Location: London, England
I honestly believe that it happens when
your least expecting it. I have been
pregnant 3 times, the first time was a
total shock, the second I was trying and
it took like 7 months and the 3rd time I
had just gotten off birth control so I was
going to wait a few cycles before I
started trying but surprise I got pregnant
the first month.
Even on here you see so many women
charting and temping like crazy and it
takes forever for them to conceive and yet
you get girl's that aren't trying and
don't even want to be pregnant that get
pregnant so easily. It really isn't fair
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 10-25-07 07:09am
Shanyan
wrote:
on here you see so many
women charting and temping like crazy and
it takes forever for them to conceive and
yet you get girl's that aren't trying and
don't even want to be pregnant that get
pregnant so easily. It really isn't fair
Yep.
However, temping is a very usefull tool.
It will show my doctors that it isn't bad
timing, I'm not ovulating (that is a
pretty big problem) but, without my
temping, the doctors would probably
believe that it was a timing issue and
dismiss me. So, I still highly suggest
temping.
Many women temp and aren't ttc. It is
truely the only way to know what is (or
isn't) going on. However, you haven't had
any problems in the past. While this
doesn't mean you won't have any problems
this time, it means that you know you are
capable of conceiving.
Chrissy.....have you found out yet if you
are now ovulating.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 10-25-07 07:33am
Shanyan
wrote:
Chrissy.....have you found
out yet if you are now
ovulating.
I'm not really sure. I have a lot of
indicators that I did either Monday or
Tuesday. But my temp hasn't really shown
it yet. So, I'm 'cautiously optimistic'. I
really really hope so. I would love an
anniversary baby. (so would dh)
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Posted: 10-25-07 09:14am
I just want a baby period...I don't care
when it happens...
Charting is a useful tool, but trying not
to think about it and not really trying
isn't as easy as it sounds. I tried to
forget about everything last month and it
didn't do me any good.
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girlfromdasticks
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Posted: 10-25-07 10:04am
beckster--It is REALLY easy to get
obsessed with TTC. I am sure that because
by the time you start trying you are ready
to have one right then. My dh and I tried
for 7 months before I got a bfp.... not to
discourage you But
it might take a while. After a while of
getting neg tests back you will start to
stess a bit. Just try to relax and have
fun....it will happen. Good luck and tons
of baby dust ~~~
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Becky
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Posted: 10-25-07 13:23pm
Thanks girls. I really appreciate your
words and it's nice to know there are
others going through the same thing
But
it might take a while. After a while of
getting neg tests back you will start to
stess a bit. Just try to relax and have
fun....it will happen. Good luck and tons
of baby dust ~~~