i was having unprotected sex with my ex bf of one year. that was the stupidest thing i could have ever done. the first time it was unprotected [sept.4th] i thought i started my birthcontrol again, but i must have thought i did when i was taking my vitamins because i checked my birthcontrol that night to MAKE SURE i had taken it and i hadnt.

me and my ex boyfriend freaked out and thought we were screwed anyways. so we had more sex, i just wanted to be with him and was willing to do anything :[ i didnt want to have sex, but at that moment it was worth it to me. how STUPID i was.

a week after i had sex the first time unprotected, i had odd spotting that came from no where. no cramps, no nothing! i didnt even know till my mom told me to go into the bathroom and change... it had soaked through my clothes in the matter of hours. the next day it stopped. but see just one week before sex i had my period, so the spotting occured two weeks after my period. so i have high doubts it was my period.

i had lots of white discharge, but it wasnt a yeast infection. it lasted a few weeks.i decided that in a few weeks i should go to the pregnancy clinic to get a free test. it was negative. i decided i must not be pregnant.

then my period never came? i was thinking it could have been because i got off my birthcontrol in august. but to be sure, i bought 3 home pregnancy tests, all came out negative

now i've missed two periods since then...
i told my mom and she wants to go get a blood test at the clinic done.
but she keeps hesitating, im guessing because she doesnt want bad news...

below my waist line, around where the ovaries are located, its swelling.
im worried that it could be pregnancy but with false negative tests, OR maybe somethings going on down by my ovaries? [like Ovarian Hyperstimulation Syndrome]

please give me your opinion
am i over doing any of this?
maybe this is normal sometimes?
i just find it really odd.
i never miss periods, even when going off of birth control