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Q: Heart Broken
asked by: victoria Bartlett on October 24th, 2007
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New to this! My boyfriend Just left me after three years for a girl 20 yrs. old. We went on a vaction to Canada to meet his father and his family. when we returned the next day he said that he was going for a bike ride (something that he always did to keep in shape). Five hours later the neighbor told me that he had seen him with another girl. I did so much for this guy why couldn't he be honest? For the next two weeks he stayed living in the house with me and even had sex. He now lives with her two blocks away., we all also work together, I am there boss. I have to see them everyday this is killing me. He comes to my house a few times a week and we have sex. The problem is my friend could't stand seeing me so out of sorts that she went and blew the whistle on him to his new girl. Of course he lied. But dumb girl believes his lies. I have to move on from all this drama but just can't figure out how.
Thanks for listening Crying or Very sad
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young Girl
replied on October 24th, 2007
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first off stop haveing sex with him!
he only gets the impression that he can step all over you this way
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Mabel
replied on October 24th, 2007
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First things first, you need to stop letting him come back for sex. That road is going to get you nowhere.
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victoria Bartlett
replied on October 24th, 2007
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Heart Broken
He claims that he still loves me and is unhappy. I think he want his cake and eat it to.
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meblonde01
replied on October 24th, 2007
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Re: Heart Broken
victoria Bartlett wrote:
He claims that he still loves me and is unhappy. I think he want his cake and eat it to.


Yep and you are giving it to him.. He knows if it doesn't work out with the othere girl he can come back to you.. You make him decide..
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young Girl
replied on October 24th, 2007
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seriously will you ever take him back after he did this to you? i guarentee hes saying the SAME THING TO HER and screwing her too

stop it
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victoria Bartlett
replied on October 24th, 2007
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To be honest I'm not really sure. I have never had so much love for anyone like this before. How do you pretend to be happy when I have to look at him everyday.
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Mabel
replied on October 24th, 2007
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Or, you could let him continue to live with the other girl while hiding his relationship with you. That sounds like more misery to me.
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barbee52
replied on October 24th, 2007
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If you're his boss, then fire his ass.
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Mabel
replied on October 24th, 2007
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barbee52 wrote:
If you're his boss, then fire his ass.


She can't fire him for leaving her. That is illegal.
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Georgia59
replied on October 24th, 2007
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Nope don't do that, you'll get into trouble.
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meblonde01
replied on October 24th, 2007
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Tell the other girl he is still sleeping with you! I would!! Or have someone call her so you don't get into trouble at work..
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Mabel
replied on October 24th, 2007
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meblonde01 wrote:
Tell the other girl he is still sleeping with you! I would!! Or have someone call her so you don't get into trouble at work..


It appears someone already told the girl, but he lied to her and said he wasn't.

To the OP, either you accept his behavior or you don't. You accept it by allowing this to continue. Or you don't accept it by telling him to screw off.

Either way, it is going to be painful. You just have to choose what you are willing to deal with.
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meblonde01
replied on October 24th, 2007
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barbee52 wrote:
If you're his boss, then fire his ass.


I bet she wishes she could!!
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Birch
replied on October 24th, 2007
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meblonde01 wrote:
barbee52 wrote:
If you're his boss, then fire his ass.


I bet she wishes she could!!


Sexual harassment? Cool
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meblonde01
replied on October 24th, 2007
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Birch wrote:
meblonde01 wrote:
barbee52 wrote:
If you're his boss, then fire his ass.


I bet she wishes she could!!


Sexual harassment? Cool


I know..
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young Girl
replied on October 24th, 2007
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Birch wrote:
meblonde01 wrote:
barbee52 wrote:
If you're his boss, then fire his ass.


I bet she wishes she could!!


Sexual harassment? Cool


lol
birch your evil
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Tylanas
replied on October 24th, 2007
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victoria Bartlett wrote:
To be honest I'm not really sure. I have never had so much love for anyone like this before. How do you pretend to be happy when I have to look at him everyday.

You don't. Who says you have to be happy about his cheating butt and the new slab of meat he's found? You don't! You do have to dump his arse 100% though. You're not a slot machine for his penis whenever he's bored. Lock your door to him and let your heart heal. Every time you sleep with him you're just opening the wound.
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