Thank you for all who agrea with me. Its nice to hear thats its not just me hating this.
I guess I kinda understand about the whole moderation thing but I still cant stand it.
I dont want my fiance to look at other woman with clothes on or without clothes on, etc.
Yu know Im all up for expiramenting but watching porn with him I just dont know If could do it.
...An dont get me wrong, I do not want to sound cocky or full of my self.
But Im a model, n he has me he shouldnt want to look at other woman.

I'm sorry, but it's pretty natural for guys to look at other women. It's going to happen! My boyfriend was nearly a eunuch, and HE looked at porn!!

Maybe you just need to find a type of porn YOU like. For me personally, I like artistic photos of vaginas, gay porn, or Yaoi, which is drawn or animated gay porn in the anime style. Yes, I'm odd, I know.

Hey,
No you are not odd, to each its own. I guess I should try to be more open to it, but thiers just something about it...I dont know its hard for me to accept. ...what about making yur own, I wouldnt mind him jacking off to us or just me.

To me, it really sounds like what he's doing is making you insecure and you need to work that out on your own. Watching porn is a normal thing to do and so is masturbating. Although, I have to say I think it's kind of weird when someone won't stop watching it or can't give it up. I think it's harmless, but for many many men it can be a harmful addiction.

Victoria, YOu could make your own porn movies, but remember ,its kinda like putting something in writing. It might could be used against you one day. Eiri is right, it is a nataurl thing because it is a MALE thing to do. Men are going to look. Some just make it more obvious than others. I myself feel like you do and have most of my life, but I do not have a problem with it anymore because I feel secure in my relationship. I totally understand how you are feeling because you are so young and you are in a different type of relationship. There is all kinds of porn and there will always be other women for him to look at. BUT.....it is your choice...you have that right whether you are into it or not. And, not all of us are....This does not change who you are....I would sit down and face to face talk honestly before you continue this relationship though. COuld make a lot of difference.

Very true, I wouldnt want it used against me but I also know chas would never do that to me. Hes coming over tonight we will talk then.

hey ya! i don't think theres anythink rong with porn i think it's ok as long as it dose not tack over from ur sex life

Only my view but i will not be with any man who doesnt knock porn on the head... Yes i do think its a self esteem issue with me but i also have the romantic in me. I just feel that if he is looking at a woman that personally he might aswel go do it with her. Your with a partner to experience each other that way and no one else.

Well, I'm going to keep watching gay porn people. I don't have a wee wee and I never will, so the best I can do is to watch to men go at it! What's wrong with that? I like watching other people being happy!

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I agrea 100%

Ha ha - I had to read that twice because to me a 'wee wee' is a vagina!

I have no problem with my husband watching porn and I enjoy watching it too - I like the anime stuff too.

If you're bothered by porn then it suggests you are not secure in yourself or your relationship.

Lol, horray anime porn!

I used to be really insecure about it, I used to freak out and feel bad about myself and stuff.

It took us having a heart to heart and him making an effort to assure me that i was beautiful for me to get over it.

Plus a couple years in a trusting relationship where I grew to realize he would love me for lots of things, even though I'm not a blonde bimbo. (Ok, but I am blonde...)

We watch it together sometimes now.... Not so bad.

You say that you are a model, and I realize you probably aren't a nude model, but you have to realize that young boys love to jerk off to the Macy's catalog and other things just as much as older guys like to jerk off to porn. Maybe somebody is jerking off to you right now. Did you ever think that maybe your modeling has your finacee a little bit insecure as well? If you are a model people are looking at you all the time. think about it...

lol No Im not a nude model. BUT OHH THATS CREAPY!!!!!!! I never actually thought about people looking at me. I never thought of it that way. I mean I know chas has some insecurtites he gets jelouse when I talk to guys even if he knows I'm not interested.
...I feel really bad though becuase people have strait up told him to his face "how did you get a girl like that!?" I feel so bad I love him so much. I would never want him to feel unworthy because hes not unworthy.

Well, maybe that will help you see the other side of the coin

LOL Never heard that one before. But yah I suppose your rite.

I'm mixing my euphanisms! But I'm very tired XD

LOL its ok I got what you meant.