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Q: Anal Question/sex
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KornJL33
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My second question, is that one time when i got really high, i sort of put my pinky up my anal hole.. I felt really awkward after doing this, but at the same time it felt kind of good. I feel really weird that i did this to myself and it makes me want to think that i am gay or something (i am not watsoever gay, but its just this weird masculinity thing..) I have "fingered" my anal hole like 4 times now in the past month.. Is this normal? I feel weird that i am doing this and im going to stop it.. its just too weird after i cumm, i feel like an fool for doing what i did.
Thoughts? anyone else do either of the 2 thigns i mentioned??
thanks for ur time
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HealthySex
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dave01
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KornJL33
New User
| dave01 wrote: |
| As for the first question, I am also a Christian and you will have more than enough opportunity after marriage for sex. You should be grateful that you are not getting the STD's that most of your sexually active friends will get, if they have not already. As a Christian you should not be fingering women or engaged in any sort of sexual activity until marriage.
As for the anal question, I agree with HealthySex that it certainly is not a gay thing at all. It is simply a biological reality that stimulating the prostrate gland in this manner has this result. It is true, whether you stimulate it with a finger, a dildo, or another guy's dick (which is definitely a gay activity). |
lol, well i dont think ill be using a dildo or another guy's dick.. thats just sick man, and i wanna throw up thikin about that sinful gay caca..
Also, theres no way i can make it to marriage without at least fingering some girls lol. I hookup with random girls all the time that let me finger them lol. I know how it says in the bible that if u think a sin, then its like u actually commit it. So does this mean that if i masterbate (which is a sin), is it just the same thing as having sex with a girl, which means i should just go have sex with a girl if its the same thing?? IDK what to do... theres so many opportunities i miss out on
Also, i went to a christian middle school. All of the kids basically went to a public highschool after that because the christian school ended at 8th grade. I would say that almost all of the 40 kids that graduated have already had sex multiple times, and a couple girls i know have 3-somes and all with other girls and guys... I am like one of the few that is still a virgin..
Even in that show 7th heaven that kid simon talked about having sex with his girlfriend in the show (forget her name), and his das was the pastor of the church..
All of my cousins have had sex before marriage, except for one, who is about to get married to this girl, and they have both saved themselves for marriage, but he has had like oral sex and all before.
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Tylanas
Especially eHealthy
| KornJL33 wrote: |
| I am a senior in high school, and have not had sex yet. It isn't because I can't get any, because i have had many many opportunities with some very attractive women. Many girls have offered themselves to me in fact. I am a christian and am planning to save myself for marriage. I feel like i am missing out, because everybody else i know is having sex, and hooking up and parties and all. |
I'm not christian, but I didn't have sex in higschool either, so I know how it feels. But I felt proud of myself at the same time, because I knew I had better things to do than endanger my health and my body. I wanted to save myself for someone I truly loved, and that didn't happen until I was 20 years old.
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| I've been in many situations where im fingering the girl til orgasm, and all that, and i do everyhing but stick my dick in her puddin.. IDK, but i feel like im missing out on this "youth" sex thing.. Is it worth it to save myself for marriage and the right one? |
I don't think "youth" sex is good at all - not that I had any, as I said! I simply feel that most teens aren't mature enough emotionally to handle sex. I don't think most teens can truly appreciate the connection one gets during sex.
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| I feel like God will bless me with a really nice girl that has saved herself too, but it seems like everyone else is having sex, and i may be the only one left |
Like I said: You definitely aren't! Trust me, there are plenty of guys and girls who are still virgins
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| My second question, is that one time when i got really high, i sort of put my pinky up my anal hole.. I felt really awkward after doing this, but at the same time it felt kind of good. |
Well of course it did. The anus has a lot of nerve endings on it, so it can be very pleasurable to stimulate it. Inside of the rectum you can stimulate the prostate gland, which can cause an intense orgasm.
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| I feel really weird that i did this to myself and it makes me want to think that i am gay or something (i am not watsoever gay, but its just this weird masculinity thing..) I have "fingered" my anal hole like 4 times now in the past month.. Is this normal? I feel weird that i am doing this and im going to stop it.. its just too weird after i cumm, i feel like an fool for doing what i did. |
Yes. It is 100% normal. Enjoying anal sex has nothing to do with being homosexual: many straight men enjoy it as well (either through their female partner fingering them or through a strap-on).
Don't feel weird or foolish! Again, its completely normal and it's supposed to feel good because of all the nerves down there. Don't stop if you enjoy it!
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KornJL33
New User
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Tylanas
Especially eHealthy
| KornJL33 wrote: |
| idk, i dont wanna have silent farts the rest of my life... lol.
thanks for all the advice. oh, and say i meet someone special and end up having sex b4 marriage, will i like bust like as i enter her? i mean, i dont think i could last 3 thrusts without cumming in a real situation.. |
I have no idea what you mean about silent farts... O.o
As for ejculation, you can practice on your own to make yourself last longer. Just masturbate more slowly!
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KornJL33
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Tylanas
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inkaquest
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dave01
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KornJL33
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Tylanas
Especially eHealthy
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KornJL33
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inkaquest
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Tylanas
Especially eHealthy
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Georgia59
Especially eHealthy
This isn't the place to debate homosexuality. Do it on the debate forums if you want to. In here, please don't refer to anything as "sinful gay (bad word)" ok?
On the sexual health forums here, we encourage any and all kinds of sex
On the sexual health forums here, we encourage any and all kinds of sex
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marvel
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KornJL33
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