Well the reason you get sore is because you don't use lube. Also, I hope you're trying to get pregnant with all this unprotected sex... You clearly need to use lube.

Yeah lube should help solve your problem. There is too much friction ands a result you are experiencing pain and swelling. Sex should not be a traumatic experience. Try use water based lube like KY or WET. Always make sure you are very wet whenever you come into sexual contact. if this still doesnt work I suggest seeing a gynocologist.

so happy i'm not the only one hun! i had the exact same problem (i'm also relatively new to the sex scene) and we never used anything (lube or condom) and then i decided to go on a break from sex until the pain fully went away and started using lube and we havent had any problems since
---we also increased foreplay because i realized we should be having sex when both of wants it, not just when he does!

get some lube

and if you dont want a baby then get some condoms too! they sell them on the same isle!

I need to use lube all the time. If I don't, it really does hurt, and I'm not excited about sex at all.

are you on any type of birth control? But I agree with these other post and also suggest some form of lube. And speaking from experience, I am a mom to 2 sets of twins who are 21 mos apart, I would suggest you use some form of protection...

My current bf is really big and if I don't use lube I get real sore too.

You should use lube. No point being sore, that's just stupid.

im on the pill. and take it correctly.
used lube the other night and was so much better.

Yay!!

I have the same problem, but we use lube and I still get sore. I have to wait 2-3 days sometime before we can have sex again without me hurting. In the beginning when I first started sleeping with this partner I would constantly get bacterial infections. I would go to the gyno and she would give me meds to fix it. But it continuosly returns! I have been tested to STD's religiously since this problem with him. It's been a year and I still get super sore and BV. What the heck? HELP! please. : )

Sounds like HE probably has an infection and is reinfecting you...he should get tested/treated.

thats what i suggested. i was reading about bv and all the information pertaining to this did not say anything about the male being a carrier. that he wouldnt have any type bacterial infection. blah blah blah... it has to be him. it has to be. the strange thing is, it only hurts/burns when he first put it in. there is one spot that his penis has to pass. once it's passed that spot, it's fine. strange right?