You should have stopped him!

1. Sex should NEVER be painful.
2. Use lube!
3. Make him give you an orgasm before he even tries for penetration.
4. Use protection!

You might not have had a hymen to break, hun. He simply didn't care for your feelings and you didn't know any better. It's not your fault. Women have been brainwashed into thinking losing their virginity needs to be a horridly painful and bloody experience. It's just not true.

You were most likely injured during the forced sex, and that could be to your hymen or even to the vaginal walls themselves. Now that you're sexually active you need to get a pap-smear done.

Next time it hurts, COMMAND him to stop. Kick him if you need to. You are the woman, and you are in control. Sex does not need to hurt.

yeah i should have stopped him...but it was both our first time and i kinda didn't wanna ruin it.but it turned out ugly anyway..

Exactly. You didn't necessarily have to stop him totally, but telling him to stop for a moment and pleasure you to make sure you have enough natural lubrication, and then for him to put on lube over the condom (I hope you used one!?) isn't going to "ruin" sex.

Eiri said exactly what I was gonna say.

I have to use lube almost every time. I just don't get really wet no matter how turned on I am.