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ERICA83

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Joined: 16 Mar 2004
Posts: 738
Location: clinton twp, MI
Education
Posted: 04-01-04 15:09pm

How many of you feel that education is important? I look at it like this, I think it is extremly important. Whenever I get down and think of how caca t y my life is cuz I aint got no money, I cant buy all the things I like ect. It's all becuase I settle for crappy jobs. Really school is the only way out or to improve unless you hit the lottery or are born into a rich family and that isnt the case for me. Look I gradauated when I was 17 and here I am gonna be 21 in nov. I totally blew school off and I think if id just stayed in, by now id prolly be a nurse making fat money and be happy. Now I have to start from the bottom. I know alot of you dont have money for school but either do i. There is all sorts of financial aid to help. Otherwise there is no way I could ever afford schooling. Just trying to spread some inspiration to you all. Here is a poem my high school teacher gave me and I dug it out and hung it on my wall so that whenever I decide I hate mylife so much I can realize I only have myself to blame. It's really motivational.
Success

the road to success is not straight..



There is a curve called failure... A loop called confusion

speed bumps called friends, red lights called enemies...



Caution, lights called family, you will have flats called jobs,

but if you have a spare called determination and an engine

called preservation, insurance called faith a driver like

yourself will make it to a place called success!



Def of a job: just over broke. Education is the difference between a job and a career! ~ erica,
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lee25

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Joined: 30 Dec 2003
Posts: 1018
Location: new york

Posted: 04-01-04 15:32pm

Your right that's why I decided to go back last year. I figured I have a child now and I want to set a good example for him. I started least year in june. I wanted to go safe so I went to a 2 yr. College. I need 60 credits to graduate, it hasn't even been a year, and I already have 30. By the end of this semester I will have 39, and I plan on going to summer school again. Because I now only need 8 more classes to graduate, i'm going to try and take 3-4 classes in the summer. That way when I have the baby in august I could take it easy, so that when I have to return in september I could take 2 classes, and depending on how many I take in the summer i'll have 2-3 classes to take the following semester. That way I don't quit school and I could still take care of my marital duties. But I totally agree with you, busting your a s s for minimum wage sucks. Don't feel bad about being 21, I started college right after highschool at 17. But my grades were so low that I got the financial aid taken away and got kicked out of school. They said if I wasn't going to take it serious to let someone else have my spot. I felt so stupid that I thought I would never go back. I guess I just wasn't mentally prepared for the work. Now i'm a honor student, just got invited to jion the latin honor society club. I was also asked to become a student mentor, and recently got a letter for qualification for the school's scholorship because of my grades. I never thought that I could be more prouder of myself than I am now. It is never too late to go back. I'll be 26 now on april 15., and their are people that are older than me in school. I say go for it, it is never too late to better yourself. Make yourself, your son, and family proud of you. But remember if your heads not in it, it won't work. You have to seperate your school, work and family life. You have to find a way to make it work, and you need family to support and help you. Good luck, you won't regret it.

Brenda
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insurancegirl

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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286

Posted: 04-01-04 23:38pm

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PregnaJordan

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Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908

Posted: 04-01-04 23:41pm

Well I dropped out omce I learned I failed the 11th grade...I was stupid, but I was living with chris and thought I had caca together..Obviously not!
Well I am planning on takin my ged once baby gets here, im taking a family class that provides nursery and then I play on starting night classes or something ike that at our tech. College....
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sparklypixie12

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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099

Posted: 04-01-04 23:50pm

You need a good education here to get a good job to afford the sky rocketing cost of houses. I think education's important to better yourself. Ive been in education since I was 3! So thats 15years so far & I have another 3.5 years left. I know that when I finish my degree I will get a great job with great money,be able to marry mike,get a nice car & all the things I want then have kids.
I do totally agree with jen to though-i know people who've gone through college & failed so badly when they could have spent that time looking for a job
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ERICA83

Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2004
Posts: 738
Location: clinton twp, MI

Posted: 04-02-04 03:12am

Oh I know school is not for everyone trust me I hate college but I know it is something I have to do in order to be more happy with my life. I am not saying that anyone is stupid in any way if they dont not go. Becuase of certain situations, I know some people cant even attend if they could afford it. I have to take night classes because I cant function in the morning. One semester, when I was like 18 I took a child care course in college from like 9 am - 1pm and I failed! 1- cuz I was always so tired that early and 2 college is soooo much harder than high school. The only reason I even took that course was cuz I took it for like 2 years in high school so I thought it would be a breeze but I was wrong. All I wanted to do was spread some light because I know alot of us are struggling. I am stuggling very much. I dont even have enough money sometime to put gas in my car and I have to borrow from people or enough money to buy milk. Thats why I ask the govt for help so I can get my tail in school to better my life and I dont want my child to hate me when he grows older like I did with my parents cuz I grew up poor and my fam was screwed up cuz of it. I just think positive and know that nothing is impossible. My bf had to had heart surgery when he was 16 because he had like an extra valve or somethin and we found out that his surgeon/cardiologist was a man who used to be a bum on the streets addictied to heroin! See how amazing it is so see someone turn their life around? Anyone can do it. ~ erica.
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