i am 16 an just met a girl first sexual
partner an we have had sex but when i am
having sex with her and my whole penis
goes inside she say OUCH and just want to
know want is goin on and why it hurts her
it did not hurt me so i dont know wants
goin on
PLEASE SOMEONE HELP
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-22-07 10:26am
There could be a lot of things going on-
~ She might not be well lubricated. If she
is nervous or scared, and not really into
sex because she is nervous, her vagina
might be really dry and that would hurt
alot. You can fix this by increasing
foreplay (like at least 15 minutes of
foreplay for her, oral or fingering or
whatever) so she is really relaxed and
ready for sex. Or use a store bought
lubricant along with foreplay, it will
really help.
~ You might be going in really deep and
hitting her cervix, that hurts some girls.
If it seems like that is the case, let her
control the depth of penetration for what
feels good for her. Try different
positions that don't allow for so much
depth.
~ She might be scared and clenching her
vaginal muscles. That would hurt to. Try
to get her relax like I said above.
~ She could (though unlikely) have some
sort of infection or medical problem that
causes it to hurt.
~ She might (though unlikely) still have
had a hymen, in which case it might
(though unlikely) have hurt when it was
broken.
What are you using for protection? Also,
she needs to be seeing a gynocologist now
that she is sexually active.
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dandamen
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Joined: 21 Oct 2007 Posts: 44 Location: , Dorset
Posted: 10-22-07 10:34am
she has already seen a doctor and she had
her thing brocken she said it might be my
penis because it is bigger than average
well thats wat she says could it be that
or not
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-22-07 12:00pm
It could be, if it was hitting her cervix
and your penis is long. That isn't really
likely though, it is more likely that she
is not well lubricated.
Try using store bought lubricant next time
and see if it helps, as well as the things
listed above.