No Erection While Standing Or On Top Posted: 10-22-07 00:43am
Hello, I am 24 years old and I have been
dealing with some erection issues. I
masterbate on average once a day but i
always do it either sitting or on my back,
never standing up. I believe this has
caused problems for me to where it is
nearly impossible for me to achieve an
erection while standing or being on top.
This was an issue with my last girlfriend,
each time we had sex, 3 times, it was a
struggle and i never reached orgasm.
This has caused me some mental anguish and
has only enhanced the fear of not being
able to achieve an erection. I wake up
with morning erections so I feel the
problem isnt physical. When i achieve an
erection sitting down and then try to
stand up I quickly lose the erection and I
just feel like the mood leaves me. It
also takes me a good while to reach orgasm
while masterbating, and I'm contemplating
on take a leave of absence from
masterbation and porn to see if this would
correct the problem. My question is, does
anyone else experience similar problems?
I know that when I basically expect to
lose my erection which doesnt help in any
way. but even if im completely in the
mood and i stand it goes away. I can
still reach orgasm while standing but it
takes a very long time and my penis will
only be 1/3 erect. Sorry for rambling but
I'm just wondering if anyone can offer
some advice on how to help... I'm thinking
about checking into Viagra to help me with
this problem
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marvel
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Posted: 10-22-07 06:55am
I would just say experiment. I personally
don't enjoy standing up during
sex/foreplay etc. It just doesn't turn me
on.
Is your problem that you're not turned on
by it, or is it that your bits 'n pieces
just don't work?
You might want to find what works for
you.... practice on your own... try
getting kinky or do something that really
turns you on while you stand up. It might
help.
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kelsouta03
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2007 Posts: 3
Posted: 10-22-07 13:33pm
it just seems that once i stand up i lose
the mood, almost like I'm not turned on by
it. Also, I believe that I'm having
problems because I've watched too much
porn and it has desensetized me to a
natural naked woman. I still feel in my
head that I'm in the mood but my body
shuts down it seems
