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Q: Worried If My Girlfriend Is Pregnant....
asked by: Vince2933 on October 21st, 2007
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Ok so me and me girlfriend has been dating quite awhile now...and we had sex once without a condom exactly 2 weeks ago...i pulled out and everything...but she started her period 3 days ago...and out of nowhere she stopped...she has been feelin nautious and throwin up and havin extremly bad stomache aches..shes been rly tired and cant sleep...and she wont eat anything....I'm just worried if shes pregnant...ive read u can't find out if sum1 is pregnant untill atleast 3 weeks into it...and ive also heard she cant be pregnant if she started her period no matter how long it lasted...and her mom thinks she is cuz he stomache has been kinduv stiff... Confused

i just needed an answer and want to kno if the details i have is true?
if you guys dont mind to help me out..it's very apprciated
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Tylanas
replied on October 21st, 2007
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Pulling out means nothing; pre-cum has semen in it so you literally had unprotected sex.

A 3 day period is normal for some women. Is this unusual for her? She cannot be getting pregnancy symptoms only 2 weeks it. It's physically impossible.

Tiredness and nausea? Sounds like the flu to me. She needs to go to a doctor.

You are right that you couldn't really test right now. It might be accurate, but I'd personally wait until 3 weeks to be sure. In the meantime, go to a doctor so she can find out if she does indeed have the flu.
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Vince2933
replied on October 21st, 2007
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I understand about the pulling out part. I tried to explain that to her...

and she told me that her periods normally last 5-7 days. and shes never had a 3 day one before... but if its physically impossiable, whats up with the stoppin of the period out nowhere?

and yah she told me like 2 days ago shes been really stressed here latley...and she started throwin up the night she stopped her period..but she has been throwin up worse since she heard that, skippin of the period and throwin up could be symptoms of pregnancy..so i think she could be worrying her self sick..literally. She does have a tempature cuz i spent alot of the day with her today, and she kept complaining of stomache pains and throwing up... she hasnt been sleeping any nor eating.

But what's up with the stomache aches??? she said she had them be4 when she was pregnant once be4 untill she had a miscarrage.
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Tylanas
replied on October 22nd, 2007
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Vince2933 wrote:
I understand about the pulling out part. I tried to explain that to her...

and she told me that her periods normally last 5-7 days. and shes never had a 3 day one before... but if its physically impossiable, whats up with the stoppin of the period out nowhere?


Periods do that sometimes. Humans aren't machines, things aren't always like clockwork.

I said it's physically impossible for her to be having symptoms, NOT that it's impossible for her to be pregnant. It is VERY possible for her to be pregnant. You said you had sex 2 weeks before her period? That's right during when her most fertile days should be.

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and yah she told me like 2 days ago shes been really stressed here latley...and she started throwin up the night she stopped her period..but she has been throwin up worse since she heard that, skippin of the period and throwin up could be symptoms of pregnancy..


Again, no way this soon. I think she has a very bad flu and needs medical attention right away :/ On TOP of the good possibility of being pregnant. These things need to be dealt with! Your girlfriend clearly isn't taking responsibility for her health so YOU need to.

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so i think she could be worrying her self sick..literally. She does have a tempature cuz i spent alot of the day with her today, and she kept complaining of stomache pains and throwing up... she hasnt been sleeping any nor eating.


She has the god damned flu then!!! She NEEDS to go to a doctor NOW. Right now. The moment you read this message. Bundle her up and GO.

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But what's up with the stomache aches??? she said she had them be4 when she was pregnant once be4 untill she had a miscarrage.


Stomach aches are a FLU symptom. I'm not saying she isn't pregnant because she very well could be. But I heavily know that she is extremely sick right now and she needs you to be the man and take her to the hospital! You can get a pregnancy test done then and there. If she IS pregnant then you're going to have to make a couple of decisions regarding treatment of her illness and of her pregnancy. You cannot hold this off.
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Georgia59
replied on October 22nd, 2007
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Agreed. There is a chance she is pregnant, and you'll need to start protecting yourself better. Birth control is not just the girl's responsibility!! Use condoms, get on the pill, whatever. Remember, it's your baby too if she gets pregnant, and you need to be responsible to prevent that if it's not what you want. Refuse to have sex with her unless you are protected in some way.

But her current symptoms sound more like she's sick, and she needs to see a doctor.
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Vince2933
replied on October 22nd, 2007
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Ok well good news, but bad news...
i took my g/f to the doctor today and she has strep throat REALLLLY bad... so hopefully thats all the signs thats been makin her feel rly bad, and stuff. sooo theres step 1 down. Thanx for all the help guys, i'll give u some more updates and see what u guys think...

I appriciate everything and thanx for encouraging me to take her to the dr.!
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Georgia59
replied on October 22nd, 2007
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Good! I'm glad she'll get some medicine.

Good for you for taking care of her. Smile
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Tylanas
replied on October 22nd, 2007
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Oh good, strep throat is a bacterial infection so she can actually cure it with antibiotics. You need to make sure she takes every single pill she's prescribed, even if she feels fine. Strep is very resistant and if she stops the medicine the infection will come back worse. It can also develop into scarlet fever if she ignores it.

Now you need to get her a pregnancy test. Buy one with a digital screen so that there is no question.
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raulho
replied on February 19th, 2009
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hi
me and my girlfriend we had a sex 6 weeks a go and it been a few days she have been vomiting and all her body is in pain,and almost her throat as well,and she has a temp,and she thinks is pregnant,but how com it happend couse she use allways pill
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