Troubles With My Girlfriend Posted: 10-21-07 20:15pm
i have been dating a girl for almost 10
months, we used to masturbate eachother
and take showers together quite often(no
sex). But she hasnt made me cum in the
past 4 months and has really only tried
once in those 4 mothns. Usually we just do
her b/c i take to long and everytime we
are about to, her parents come home or
something. In the past 2 motnhs she has
been in a huge slump and she wont even let
me touch her. She finds it funny to make
me horny and not do anything about it, i
dont get how she can turn me on so fast
and i cant even turn her on, well atleast
thats what i think on the count of she
hasnt been horny in the past months. I
really just want to know if this is
strange or not and also if theres a way i
can get her out of this slump.
And another thing, her parents were gone
the entire weekend and we didnt do a
single thing. Also she said she was going
to be sleeping home alone and knowbody
would be home until the after noon of the
following night, and i said "omg can i
sleep over" and she just laughed in my
face and screamed no. then i asked why and
she said it was b/c im a guy and all we
think about is sex.......i was compltly
offended. does anybody think that its
weird that she wouldnt let me or iam i an
fool and of course i she shouldnt let me
sleep over?
PLEASE HELP ME!!! ANYTHING WILL HELP!!!
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worrywart001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 10-21-07 22:29pm
you need to talk to her and tell her ur
concerns...when I first started dating my
current boyfriend..we did stuff everytime
we hung out...this was at the beginning of
our relationship,then one night I turned
him down (mostly because I wanted to see
if he was just tryin to get into my pants)
and he flipped..not on me but he started
askin my friend if I was still into him
(which i was) and stuff...we talked about
things...i just needed to figure things
out..and i wanted to make sure that there
was something there other than a physical
connection, maybe she just needs a break
to think things over...
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tashajohnson
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Joined: 27 Oct 2007 Posts: 3 Location: pa,
What? Posted: 10-27-07 18:23pm
Do you love her? If not then find someone
else.If you do love her then find out what
turns her on and do whatever it takes to
please her because that's what love is .I
mean sometime I don't feel like it with my
boyfriend either ,but not for to long .I
mean he knows where to touch and where to
kiss and how to please my body so
sometimes when I don't want to he puts me
right in the mood.So find out what works
for her.
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 10-27-07 20:30pm
Maybe she doesn't want a boyfriend right
now? Is something else going on in her
life?
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DJS2105
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Posted: 10-27-07 20:57pm
well she always has ALOT of things going
on, i know she loves me
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-29-07 09:47am
Talk to her about it. Maybe she is feeling
like you only want her for sex. Show her
that you find all of her important, not
just her body.
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DJS2105
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Posted: 10-29-07 14:03pm
thats not it, iv talked to her before and
she knows i love her and not just for
sexual things
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-29-07 17:27pm
Well then dude, you're just gonna have to
ask her Maybe she just
wasn't in the mood?
Maybe she just
wasn't in the mood?