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Q: Troubles With My Girlfriend
asked by: DJS2105 on October 21st, 2007
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i have been dating a girl for almost 10 months, we used to masturbate eachother and take showers together quite often(no sex). But she hasnt made me cum in the past 4 months and has really only tried once in those 4 mothns. Usually we just do her b/c i take to long and everytime we are about to, her parents come home or something. In the past 2 motnhs she has been in a huge slump and she wont even let me touch her. She finds it funny to make me horny and not do anything about it, i dont get how she can turn me on so fast and i cant even turn her on, well atleast thats what i think on the count of she hasnt been horny in the past months. I really just want to know if this is strange or not and also if theres a way i can get her out of this slump.
And another thing, her parents were gone the entire weekend and we didnt do a single thing. Also she said she was going to be sleeping home alone and knowbody would be home until the after noon of the following night, and i said "omg can i sleep over" and she just laughed in my face and screamed no. then i asked why and she said it was b/c im a guy and all we think about is sex.......i was compltly offended. does anybody think that its weird that she wouldnt let me or iam i an fool and of course i she shouldnt let me sleep over?

PLEASE HELP ME!!! ANYTHING WILL HELP!!!
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worrywart001
replied on October 21st, 2007
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you need to talk to her and tell her ur concerns...when I first started dating my current boyfriend..we did stuff everytime we hung out...this was at the beginning of our relationship,then one night I turned him down (mostly because I wanted to see if he was just tryin to get into my pants) and he flipped..not on me but he started askin my friend if I was still into him (which i was) and stuff...we talked about things...i just needed to figure things out..and i wanted to make sure that there was something there other than a physical connection, maybe she just needs a break to think things over...
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tashajohnson
replied on October 27th, 2007
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What?
Do you love her? If not then find someone else.If you do love her then find out what turns her on and do whatever it takes to please her because that's what love is .I mean sometime I don't feel like it with my boyfriend either ,but not for to long .I mean he knows where to touch and where to kiss and how to please my body so sometimes when I don't want to he puts me right in the mood.So find out what works for her.
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Verizon-y
replied on October 27th, 2007
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Maybe she doesn't want a boyfriend right now? Is something else going on in her life?
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DJS2105
replied on October 27th, 2007
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well she always has ALOT of things going on, i know she loves me
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Georgia59
replied on October 29th, 2007
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Talk to her about it. Maybe she is feeling like you only want her for sex. Show her that you find all of her important, not just her body.
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DJS2105
replied on October 29th, 2007
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thats not it, iv talked to her before and she knows i love her and not just for sexual things
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Georgia59
replied on October 29th, 2007
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Well then dude, you're just gonna have to ask her Smile Maybe she just wasn't in the mood?
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DJS2105
replied on October 29th, 2007
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gahhhh!! i guess
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