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Q: Bipolar Ex Roomie Wont Leave Me Alone!!
asked by: CoolGlassofH2O on October 21st, 2007
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Its been 4mnths since I moved out of my old place. Me and my X friend got a place together. After a few months I couldn't stand living there wit her. She.s bisexual, bipolar, very domineering. I have no problems wit bisexuals or gays, but I did have a problem when she started getting mad when my boyfriend came to spend 2 nights out of every week.

She would get mad that he was with me, would take me out, she would get mad that we stayed in my room all day sometimes jus so we wouldn't have to hear her health forum. And she's not subtle, she's will cuss a complete stranger out.

Anyways I gave her a one month warning that I was leaving and on my last night there she lunged at me but didn't do anything. 4 mnths later she sent me an email telling me I'm a health forum for having told our mutual best friend that she lunged at me and that it wasn't true. That I'm a health forum and childish for having left without a warning. That I'm childish for still being wit a guy who at first didn't tell me he had a kid, and yea my guy does have a kid.

So she keeps sending me messages not about the original fight we were having but about my private life, the relationship wit my boyfriend. And its really pissing me off. She's showing signs of jealousy. Or something again. And she won't stop what should I say to her to leave me the hell alone?? Please help!!
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MandMs
replied on October 22nd, 2007
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Do you feel something else about her except getting mad?
Do you feel some kind of sorry for not living together?
Did you have nice, friendly relationship with her before she started messing with your life?
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CoolGlassofH2O
replied on October 22nd, 2007
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I don't understand the first 2 questions. But the 3rd question... This is my answer..

All we were was friends, we lived in different cities but we would hang out with our other friends when ever we could. She thought that living together would be like the tv show "friends"

For the first 2 mnths I had a part time job, but still payed my rent. I had a lot of free time and we would hang out often. But then I got a fulltime job were I worked nights and I didn't have time to hang out anymore. And that's when she would get mad that I didn't hang out with her, but I didn't have time. And on my days off I still had to do things, I would barely see my boyfriend and we.d go out. And when we did she.d get so mad!

And then she started freaking me out when I.d get out of the shower or something all dressed and shed say stuff like "you smell so good" so I don't know what's wrong with her but now she keeps denying that she didn't lunge and me and she keeps sending me messages after 4 mnths of me moving out.
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abnrmlmind
replied on October 22nd, 2007
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The best thing I can think of is not to respond to her, at ALL. Not even a "leave me alone". It might take time but it will eventually end. If all else fails and you become uncomfortable with the ordeal you should perhaps get a restraining order you shouldnt have to be "annoyed" with someone constantly. just remember you dont have to deal with it if you dont want to. and it sounds like she has a personality disorder not bpd. but thats just my opinion.
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BoneyardDiva
replied on October 23rd, 2007
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I'm with abnrmlmind...cut off all contact. She's obviously wanting to hear from you...it feeds her obsession.
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dncn4lyfe77
replied on October 29th, 2007
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someone with bipolar disorder isnt obsessive and stuff like that. All bipolar is, is severe mood swings basically. It's a MOOD disorder not a PERSONALITY disorder Smile
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CoolGlassofH2O
replied on November 1st, 2007
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But her moodswings seemed to have affected her personality, but I got her off my back so everything is ok now. Thank you to everybody for your input.
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