Hi.
Well, i'm by no means an expert but what you're describing does sound like some sort of seizure. What you've described isn't what i've experienced but there are so many variations. For me absence seizures are flutters of my eyes. I can still participate in conversation, driving etc., it doesn't interfere with the goings on. However, at age 19 things changed. That was when I had my first tonic-clonic (grand mal) seizure. The fluttering still continued and still does, but things have become more complicated. When I was diagnosed my parents were told that I would either outgrow my absence seizures or they would probably worsen/develop into somethingelse. From what they tell me everyone assumed I would just outgrow it. But as I say things changed.
What you describe sounds similar to the sort of aura I have before a bigger seizure. In the hours before I have a seizure (which for me is becoming unconcious, my head goes to the right, and my body stifens and jolts for 30 seconds or so) I feel like things are sort of going in slow motion. I hear people talk to me but have a hard time comprehending and responding. Sometimes I will be mid-sentence and have to ask what I was talking about. I'm not with it and it's obvious. From what i've read, what i'm describing is actually other sorts of small seizures, not just an "aura" so to speak, but again i'm not an expert.
Like your daughter, when I was diagnosed I had a bunch of blood work done and further testing which I expect is what might be recommended next for her. To confirm diagnoses in me I had an eeg test. This is where you are taken into a small quiet examination room and your head is attatched to about 30 wires that will measure brain activity. The test takes about half an hour. When i've had it done they've asked me to have my eyes open for a while, then stare at a blinking light, then breathe deeply, close them and so on. It's not painful or difficult. A little scarey at first probably, especially since you do not know whay the outcome will be. They might also do an mri, which also isn't painful at all.
I'm sure your mind must be racing with questions, anxiety and the need to know as much as you can. I know, it's really hard for all of you. I hope my response has provided you with some information. If you have any further questions please post them and i'll reply. Or if you want to e-mail privately i'm willing to do that too.
You will all get through this. It will be a tough road at times i'm sure, but you will all make it and at some point i'm sure you're daughter will be back to herself. It may take a lot of time and some meds, but life will be right again. Good luck, keep me posted if you can!
Kathy