My Girlfriend's... Vagina. Posted: 10-20-07 21:36pm
Okay, this is really weird for me. I am a
teenager and so is my girlfriend. We have
been dating for just over a year and we're
saving sex for marriage. I am a virgin,
and she says she is too. We masturbate
each other about twice a week.
Here's my question. If she's a "virgin"
and a teenager, shouldn't her hymen be
intact? To me, it looks like there isn't
even one there. Also, I can fit two
fingers in her and move them back and
fourth. Sure, the skin is tight around my
fingers..but should I be able to fit 2?
I had a friend tell me that if I can make
her "come" with one finger, then she's
probably not a virgin. I can make her
"come" with my middle finger in less than
two minutes. What does this mean?
I am just trying to figure out if she's
telling me the truth about her past
relationships. She tells me that she
hasn't had sex, but all of a sudden I hear
people telling me stories. And then I end
up with 2 fingers in her, and it makes me
really wonder.
What do you guys and girls think about
this?
Thanks so much!
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sillysallie1990
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2007 Posts: 308 Location: ,
Posted: 10-20-07 23:26pm
this doesnt mean a thing!!!!
first of all some girls dont even have a
hymen when born, but if she happened to
have one at birth, there are so many
everyday activities that could of broken a
hymen. Does she use tampons or ride bikes
or horses? did she fall down funny when
she was little(i cant count the number of
times i fell on bars while playing on the
playground in school!!!! ouch!!!!) you
dont have to have sex to break a hymen!!!
second of all, the size of her vagina
doesnt mean that she has had sex before!!!
vaginas come in all shapes and
sizes!!!!!!!(just like penises) think
about it!!!if size was really effected by
this kind of thing then women who have had
a baby would never get laid!!! they would
be too loose! the fact that you can fit
two fingers inside her is a good thiing,
it means that you are turning her on
enough for her to get really wet... which
allows you too fit two finger in her...
(depending on the size of your fingers,
two fingers really isnt that much...)
has your girlfriend lied to you is that
why you dont trust her? if she says she is
a virgin she probably is...
oh by the way, your friend is not very
smart if he believes the thing about
making her come with one finger thing ...
there is no sure way to tell if someone is
truley a virgin so next time one of your
buddies come to you with magic trick the
generalizes girls like that ...... its not
true...
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Tylanas
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Re: My Girlfriend's... Vagina. Posted: 10-20-07 23:58pm
blue1968
wrote:
Okay, this is really weird
for me. I am a teenager and so is my
girlfriend. We have been dating for just
over a year and we're saving sex for
marriage. I am a virgin, and she says she
is too. We masturbate each other about
twice a week.
Here's my question. If she's a "virgin"
and a teenager, shouldn't her hymen be
intact?
No. Some girls are born without one. Here
is a link to a site that shows drawings of
many kinds of hymens, and as you can see,
some of them are not big. Mine personally
was just a single thin string of flesh
across my vagina entrance like in the last
image.
Entirely possible. That doesn't mean she
isn't a virgin. She could have broken it
during gymnastics, sports, running,
jumping, biking, putting in tampons, or
masturbating.
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Also, I can fit
two fingers in her and move them back and
fourth. Sure, the skin is tight around my
fingers..but should I be able to fit 2?
Why not? The myth that a woman needs to be
tight and impossible to enter in order to
be a "virgin" is as outdated as slavery.
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I had a friend
tell me that if I can make her "come" with
one finger, then she's probably not a
virgin.
Your friend is incredibly dumb. He or she
probably doesn't even know that women can
have two different kinds of orgasm,
either. I bet it's a guy. I feel sorry for
any girl he dates, as he is very
ignorant.
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I can make her
"come" with my middle finger in less than
two minutes. What does this mean?
That means you're one hell of a lucky guy
OR, she's faking it to make you feel
better. I assume your middle finger is
inside of her vagina. This means you are
probably stimulating her g-spot. If she
can indeed orgasm that fast from g-spot
stimulation, then she's a very lucky
lady.
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I am just trying
to figure out if she's telling me the
truth about her past relationships. She
tells me that she hasn't had sex, but all
of a sudden I hear people telling me
stories. And then I end up with 2 fingers
in her, and it makes me really wonder.
It makes me wonder where you learned
sex-ed from, since you clearly don't know
anything about the female
body, orgasm, or virginity :/
Quote:
What do you guys
and girls think about this?
Thanks so much!
I think you need to read a modern book on
female anatomy, and then one on female
orgasm and masturbation.
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sillysallie1990
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2007 Posts: 308 Location: ,
Posted: 10-21-07 00:28am
lol i was trying not to call anybody
stupid but since eiri did it... your
friend is stupid and so are you if you
beleive him...
