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blue1968

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My Girlfriend's... Vagina.
Posted: 10-20-07 21:36pm

Okay, this is really weird for me. I am a teenager and so is my girlfriend. We have been dating for just over a year and we're saving sex for marriage. I am a virgin, and she says she is too. We masturbate each other about twice a week.

Here's my question. If she's a "virgin" and a teenager, shouldn't her hymen be intact? To me, it looks like there isn't even one there. Also, I can fit two fingers in her and move them back and fourth. Sure, the skin is tight around my fingers..but should I be able to fit 2?

I had a friend tell me that if I can make her "come" with one finger, then she's probably not a virgin. I can make her "come" with my middle finger in less than two minutes. What does this mean?

I am just trying to figure out if she's telling me the truth about her past relationships. She tells me that she hasn't had sex, but all of a sudden I hear people telling me stories. And then I end up with 2 fingers in her, and it makes me really wonder.

What do you guys and girls think about this?

Thanks so much! Very
Happy
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sillysallie1990

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Posted: 10-20-07 23:26pm

this doesnt mean a thing!!!!

first of all some girls dont even have a hymen when born, but if she happened to have one at birth, there are so many everyday activities that could of broken a hymen. Does she use tampons or ride bikes or horses? did she fall down funny when she was little(i cant count the number of times i fell on bars while playing on the playground in school!!!! ouch!!!!) you dont have to have sex to break a hymen!!!

second of all, the size of her vagina doesnt mean that she has had sex before!!! vaginas come in all shapes and sizes!!!!!!!(just like penises) think about it!!!if size was really effected by this kind of thing then women who have had a baby would never get laid!!! they would be too loose! the fact that you can fit two fingers inside her is a good thiing, it means that you are turning her on enough for her to get really wet... which allows you too fit two finger in her... (depending on the size of your fingers, two fingers really isnt that much...)

has your girlfriend lied to you is that why you dont trust her? if she says she is a virgin she probably is...


oh by the way, your friend is not very smart if he believes the thing about making her come with one finger thing ... there is no sure way to tell if someone is truley a virgin so next time one of your buddies come to you with magic trick the generalizes girls like that ...... its not true...
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Tylanas

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Re: My Girlfriend's... Vagina.
Posted: 10-20-07 23:58pm

blue1968 wrote:
Okay, this is really weird for me. I am a teenager and so is my girlfriend. We have been dating for just over a year and we're saving sex for marriage. I am a virgin, and she says she is too. We masturbate each other about twice a week.

Here's my question. If she's a "virgin" and a teenager, shouldn't her hymen be intact?


No. Some girls are born without one. Here is a link to a site that shows drawings of many kinds of hymens, and as you can see, some of them are not big. Mine personally was just a single thin string of flesh across my vagina entrance like in the last image.

htt p://www.youngwomenshealth.org/Images/hymen _variations.jpg

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To me, it looks like there isn't even one there.


Entirely possible. That doesn't mean she isn't a virgin. She could have broken it during gymnastics, sports, running, jumping, biking, putting in tampons, or masturbating.

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Also, I can fit two fingers in her and move them back and fourth. Sure, the skin is tight around my fingers..but should I be able to fit 2?


Why not? The myth that a woman needs to be tight and impossible to enter in order to be a "virgin" is as outdated as slavery.

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I had a friend tell me that if I can make her "come" with one finger, then she's probably not a virgin.


Your friend is incredibly dumb. He or she probably doesn't even know that women can have two different kinds of orgasm, either. I bet it's a guy. I feel sorry for any girl he dates, as he is very ignorant.

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I can make her "come" with my middle finger in less than two minutes. What does this mean?


That means you're one hell of a lucky guy OR, she's faking it to make you feel better. I assume your middle finger is inside of her vagina. This means you are probably stimulating her g-spot. If she can indeed orgasm that fast from g-spot stimulation, then she's a very lucky lady.

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I am just trying to figure out if she's telling me the truth about her past relationships. She tells me that she hasn't had sex, but all of a sudden I hear people telling me stories. And then I end up with 2 fingers in her, and it makes me really wonder.


It makes me wonder where you learned sex-ed from, since you clearly don't know anything about the female body, orgasm, or virginity :/

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What do you guys and girls think about this?

Thanks so much! Very
Happy


I think you need to read a modern book on female anatomy, and then one on female orgasm and masturbation.
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sillysallie1990

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Posted: 10-21-07 00:28am

lol i was trying not to call anybody stupid but since eiri did it... your friend is stupid and so are you if you beleive him...
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Tylanas

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Posted: 10-21-07 01:54am

Oh, I'll call 'em if I see 'em!
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