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Q: Is This Sexual Fetish Normal? Do I Need Help?

asked by: pertinax_lupus on October 20th, 2007

New User

I absolutely am so turned on by the thought of my wife dressed up like the girl from alice in wonderland. I have loved the book and movie for years, so there is a history there, but i can't explain why it is so sexy to me. I has to be the exact cut and colour. I am worried about this because I have no idea WHY it has to be the same colour etc. as hers, and her character is only supposed to be what, nine? I want to induldge in ths fetish I have but I am scared to look into it. Should I seek help? I feel like I'm sexualizing something about the girl or a little girls dress and I feel sick. This kink of mine is eating me from the inside. Is this normal or do I need therapy?

Cil

Replies(15)

HealthySex

replied on October 20th, 2007

Experienced User

Is your wife nine? Probably not, so what's wrong about wanting your wife to dress up like Alice. If you google Alice in Wonderland costume you will get Halloween costumes for older women. With one twist however, the costume is dolled up to be even sexier. Soooo, it sounds like a lot of men like it. I'm looking at one now and I think it's very sexy. You shouldn't be afraid of or feel bad about your fetishes.

marvel

replied on October 22nd, 2007

Supporter

as long as you don't fantasize about a nine year old while you're imagining your wife dressed up as an alice in wonderland character, you should be fine. Fetishes are supposed to be fun!

Georgia59

replied on October 22nd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Very similar to the "school girl" fetish. As long as you're not actually having sex with young girls, I don't see why it would be a problem. Why do you think britney spears dressed up like a school girl??

MikeH90

replied on October 22nd, 2007

Experienced User

Georgia59 wrote:

cause she's a prostitute?

KornJL33

replied on October 23rd, 2007

New User

bro i had that same fetish with "alice" when i was a lil kid. go for it man!

pertinax_lupus

replied on October 31st, 2007

New User

I still can't shake that it's not right. I mean the sexed up lingerie versions of the dress really do nothing for me. It has to be that specific one, the colour, petticoats, etc. I don't even understand the school girl fetish to begin with. Why is that attractive? Don't people feel bad about it?

Cil

Tylanas

replied on November 1st, 2007

Especially eHealthy

No... it's just what people are attracted to. Sometimes you can't explain it.

pertinax_lupus

replied on November 4th, 2007

New User

Well can anyone tell me, if they like the schoolgirl thing or similar, why they like it? I can't accept that no on knows why and just goes along with it.... Doesn't anyone wonder?

Mikolas

replied on November 5th, 2007

Active User, very eHealthy

Do not question, your penis has a mind of its own. Like everybody said, as long as its not the 9 year olds you are looking at and wanting to do something with, its fine. It's the clothes that appeal to you right, I don't know, school girl outfits just turn me on, I don't bother analyzing why. Doesn't mean I like to go for 16 year olds (which is now illegal for me -_-). Alice was hot back in the day, I was jealous of the white rabbit. haha

Georgia59

replied on November 5th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

I'll take a stab at it... something to do with innocence gone wrong (in a good way). Like the good catholic school girl- that's hot because she's innocent and in a way unattainable, and you have a need to spoil her...

Just a guess. But I like the above advice, don't question your penis! Smile

thelmas4sale

replied on November 11th, 2007

Experienced User

lol i have a fetish for guys in tights Smile

thats weird right? ....halloween night my boyfriend dressed up as peter pan...and i was all over him!! i couldn't believe how turned on i was

Georgia59

replied on November 11th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

There's nothing wrong with that- I love a guy in some tight leather pants... yum

sageman

replied on November 11th, 2007

New User

You're worried about your fetish? Wait till I give you my long list. The problem is the same routine gets a little boring and tempts you to look elsewhere. For as long as your partner approves of your fetish and so long as it does not drive you to engage in any illegal act, I don't see a problem. Smile

fiona05

replied on November 12th, 2007

Supporter

you and your wife married because you are in love, so i find it unlikely that she would judge you for this! maybe she'll find it funny at first, or be taken aback, but ultimately i'm sure she'll feel honoured that you were open enough to share it with her. this is something you can both have fun with!! and you never know, maybe she has fetishes that she has never told you before and she will be inspired to share them with you too.

bbwea37

replied on January 9th, 2009

New User

I'd like to propose a theory as to why school girls or Alice in Wonderland are so sexy. Could it be that these were the things that were around when you first started to become aware of sexuality? I was at an all girls school when I first 'got the itch' and although I am as straight as they come don't fancy women I do love watching girl on girl films - they get me very hot and bothered Smile

I don't think your fetish is that unexpected given how much you love the film - just go for it enjoy Smile

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