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Q: Am I a Virgin?

asked by: mallory123 on October 19th, 2007

New User

one night I was with my boyfriend and we were messing around drunk. i told him I wanted to have sex with him in general. but i i kept saying no when he tried to "put it in" i was being flirty again and we were messing around so i think he thought it was okay and he sorta of poked in me. i immediatly freaked out, because I didnt want to and he immediatly stopped. It was one poke just a little in, i couldnt really feel it (maybe the alcohol?) and i definitity didnt want to, but I dont think he knew that? My virginity is REALLY important to me, because i think sex is a huge deal, and though I wouldnt classify that as sex, i want to know am i a virgin? did that count.

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AyaMiyaki

replied on October 19th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

If his penis was inside your vagina, you are not a virgin. If his penis did not go inside your vagina, you are still a virgin.

Tylanas

replied on October 19th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

No, in my opinion it didn't count. To loose your virginity you need to have real, full penis-in-vagina consentual sex.

blondie_e

replied on October 20th, 2007

Experienced User

i think ur a virgin i think to lose virginity it has to go full way in

beautifullydecayed

replied on October 26th, 2007

New User

I'm Kinda Lost

well......................it's kinda hard to help.you don't know if it was the liqour that made you not feel anything but it could have went further than you think. personally i think u still are but only you know!

sexxybexxy

replied on October 31st, 2007

Experienced User

i think that you are still a virgin as to lose your virginity would mean that he went all the way in.

Verizon-y

replied on October 31st, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Virginity means more than just that part of it anyway. You are ABSOLUTELY A VIRGIN.

Pink27

replied on November 2nd, 2007

New User

Unless you consciously chose to have sex and lose your virginity, then in my opinion, yes you are still a virgin.

young Girl

replied on November 2nd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

you are what you want to be

ncohen87

replied on November 4th, 2007

New User

I think you are still a virgin. If he didn't go all the way in...and you didn't feel him "pop your cherry" then you've got nothing to worry about! We all slip up sometimes...you got lucky enough to not slip up all the way!

Tylanas

replied on November 4th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

^^--- Misinformation Alert! --^^

There is no "cherry" to pop.

What sometimes breaks during a girl's first sexual encounter is the hymen. This is located at the very outside of the vaginal entrance, NOT deep inside.

The hymen is often broken by the girl during physical activities such as biking, karate, inserting tampons, horse-back riding, and masturbation.

Most women do not bleed during their first time. Aka, no "cherry" is "popped". That phrase refers to the hymen breaking and bleeding.

young Girl

replied on November 4th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

ncohen87 wrote:

lol what? i had many partners before my "cherry was popped?"

that doesnt have anything to do with being a virgin or not

ncohen87

replied on November 4th, 2007

New User

If you would have read the post I had on the last one that you tried to "confront" me on, you would have noticed that I said every woman was different. Now, realize that it is an opinion, and there are two different ways people view having lost their virginity:

1. If there was full vaginal penetration from a man's penis.
2. If the hymen was broken by a man's penetration.

For me, when I had full vaginal intercourse for the first time, my hymen broke and I felt it...therefore, when I replied I was giving her an opinion from my own personal expereience. I did bleed after the fact, and my gyn told me that this was natural, and it happens to many women.

young Girl

replied on November 4th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

ncohen87 wrote:

there are many ways people view ways to loose your virginity
theres not only 2 and theres not ne set in stone

Tylanas

replied on November 4th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

I had no hymen to break. I guess I wasn't a virgin at birth.

Including the hymen in a definition of virginity is archaic, sexist, and quite useless.

ncohen87

replied on November 4th, 2007

New User

Once again people, I said it was an opinion... get over it!

young Girl

replied on November 4th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Eiri wrote:

I had no hymen to break. I guess I wasn't a virgin at birth.

Including the hymen in a definition of virginity is archaic, sexist, and quite useless.

agreed

Tylanas

replied on November 4th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

ncohen87 wrote:

Once again people, I said it was an opinion... get over it!

No.

Your "opinion" holds back women. I can't allow that. Believing a hymen is proof of purity, and SPREADING this archaic "branding" is inexcusable on my watch.

young Girl

replied on November 4th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

ncohen87 wrote:

Once again people, I said it was an opinion... get over it!

it wasnt an opinion it was false information

period

ncohen87

replied on November 4th, 2007

New User

Women limit women by saying, "no, you can't believe in this, that or the other thing" (archaic). What you are doing is disrespecting women's opinions in the past, and women's opinons now. So since my opinion is inexcusable on your watch allows you to speak for women? Who dictated you to become the voice of women. You have no right to limit a woman's opinion, and if this is what I believe than be a strong enough individual to disagree with it and move on. All women are different, and I'd rather take an arachic opinion over degrading another woman's opinion without just cause.

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