Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 33 Location: Ontario Canada
Massive Sexual Frustration Posted: 04-01-04 03:39am
Recently I havent been able to orgasm...
Not even while masterbating.
I used to be able to, just not during sex.
But I never had a problem during oral
sex or masterbation. But about a month
ago, it all went down hill.
I met this new guy and we've fooled around
but he cant bring me to orgasm, I cant
even bring myself to one.
I'm also usually always into sex but
recently i've found myself not wanting it
and actually turning down sex (usually i'm
the one who is like "lets go now!")
it is very frustrating!
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cherry_pie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2004 Posts: 599
Posted: 04-01-04 06:45am
Are you on bc.. Or any other medication?
Things like that can interfere with your
sex drive.. Im on the pill, and I know
that my sex drive has went waaaay down.
Before I was like you ready to go anytime
(haha) and now, I have so many problems..
If I feel in the mood, im not wet enough
so that causes pain.. If im not in the
mood, my boyfriend is, and he gets mad cuz
I blow him off..
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lilgothchick
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 33 Location: Ontario Canada
Posted: 04-01-04 11:50am
Yea, i'm on the pill
what your saying sounds like me... I
never seem to be wet enough.. Yay for
lube...
It is so frustrating
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cherry_pie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2004 Posts: 599
Posted: 04-01-04 12:19pm
So did this start before or after you went
on the pill? If it started after.. Then
most likely thats your problem.. But if
it started before.. Then I don't really
know what to say! And oh yes, thank god
for lube.. Haha
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 04-03-04 16:52pm
If it did start after taking your pill
then maybe you need to switch pills. Are
you stressed out or anything? Some women
find it easier to orgasm when stressed,
but some find it much more difficult.
Could this be a factor?
