my girlfriend is very busy and does alot
of volunteer work and is always
studying/working hard on homework. she
always complains about how she has no free
time and is stressed...now she got a job
on both sunday and saturday, now im
worrying that im not going to get to spend
any time with her. and if i do it will be
from 3-6 after school, which is really me
watching tv while she sits their doing
homework and studying. i just dont know
what to do and im depressed. i dont see
how relationship will go any further.
please give some words of wisdom or
anything
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muy878
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2007 Posts: 10
Posted: 10-19-07 02:40am
try and make time for oneanother around
each others schedules i hope you will
find if u do your relationship will become
stronger, good luck
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CarolDiane
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Hang In There! Posted: 10-19-07 04:52am
I have learned in life that any time with
someone you care for is "Quility Time"
even if it is just a few hours a week. I
believe that relastionships actually grow
by the absence of one another. Things will
change, this is not going to go on
forever. So, my adivice to you is, keep
the future in mind and how nice it will be
when all this is osver and you have her in
your arms forever (if that is what you
plan) and think about how devoted she is.
You have to think about the positive side
of this. If you stick through this with
her, sounds like you will have a wonderful
life. I know it is depressing. Both my
suicide attempts were over love afairs.
Not worth it. If she means that much to
you, you will be there for her with
understanding and empathy.
