I have been dating a man younger than me,
and we live 4 hours away from each other.
We have phone sex several times a day
(2-3) but this time when we met and spent
the night, he thought he was hard, but he
was too soft for intercourse. He does
take zoloft for anxiety. I have tried
everything i can think of. I gave him
oral sex and it was just about hard and
then soft again. He is uncircumsized too.
any thoughts?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-18-07 13:35pm
It may be the zoloft... I think
antidepressants can cause ED.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-18-07 16:29pm
Well, depression/anxiety and
antidepressants all cause ED. Try to do
your best to encourage him, don't let him
worry about it and don't make him think
it's a big deal. Make sure he knows you
enjoy yourself regardless of the state of
his penis.
It might get better, but if it is the
zoloft, it probably won't unless he
switches meds.
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impiper
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Joined: 18 Oct 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 10-18-07 16:57pm
I did tell him not to and even when i had
him masterbate in front of me he was able
to ejac..even though he wasn't hard. I
will tell him about the meds though
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Rm080781
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Joined: 15 Oct 2007 Posts: 29 Location: , SC
Posted: 10-19-07 09:26am
Depression and anxiety can cause problems
on its own. Also, the meds can cause
them. I know personally that my meds for
post partum depression (Lexapro) have
caused a low sex drive and we now have to
use lubrication.
