I've been sort of going out with this guy
from the past few months and early into
the relationship I realized that he was
not right. Most of the times he's like Mr
Perfect and I swear I thought he was the
most perfect guy I'd ever met...
But then.. He randomly disappeared for 3
days [I found out later he'd blocked me on
MSN] and even though he knew I was worried
about him, he didn't bother talking to me
till three days after.
After that we became really into each
other again, untill one Sunday morning he
randomly dumped me, a mere two hours after
excitedly planning my trip to where he
lives [this is a long distance
relationship] and in those two hours all
he did was watch 300
He dumped me in the worst way ever and
came across as a total ass, untill he
unblocked me a few days later and we sorta
went back to the way we were, though
totally unofficially. Whenever either of
us would mention feelings, he'd back off,
and I started backing off as well.
Then things got interesting as he became
really boyfriendy and kept talking about
my upcoming trip to where he lives, and
then one day, out of the blue, he dumped
me again, a mere half hour after we had an
absolutely normal conversation [during the
half hour he had dinner thats all]
After that, he started talking to me
again, and we went back to being kinda
like the way we were, untill he suddenly
grew distant after we spent a particularly
good weekend talking on Voice
Conversation. His backing off coincided
with an attempt to make me jealous and I
thought he thought that I didn't like him,
so I tried to be more friendly to show I
was interested etc
But he kept backing off, and I thought
maybe he had stress from his upcoming
exams or something, but then today we just
had this massive argument about the plot
of the movie 300 [I hate that movie so
much atm] and he told me he was sick of me
at the moment and asked me to "go away".
He'd seemed kinda cranky even before I'd
started talking to him so I know it wasn't
the movie that upset him.
With him, he's always so mercurial he
changes from hour to hour, sometimes
minute to minute, and I can never
understand what to do. Another weird thing
is that he's always really really cranky
on sundays [maybe from spending all his
time at home?] and is always distant/short
with me during then.
Whoever has been keeping up with the daily
rise and fall of our relationship has said
he seems like he has a split personality
disorder, and after how he treated me
today I'm starting to think the same way.
I've typed his symptoms into google and I
came up with Bipolar disorder, do you
think that could be possible? I also came
up with Intermittent Explosive Disorder.
He has a history of getting into "dont
care" phases [and saw a councellor for it
once and hence hates professional help]
and he's just been through a lot
emotionally lately since he split up with
his very serious ex [which was his fault]
Please help me, I'm leaving for his
country tomorrow and I've already written
off my trip, but I really need to know how
to handle him because frankly i'm losing
patience [I have enough going on with my
parents' divorce, my best friend acting
like an ass and trying to pass grade 12]
He's 18, currently doing his final grade
12 exams and i'm 16..
Thanks a lot for taking the time to read
this..
