I've been sort of going out with this guy from the past few months and early into the relationship I realized that he was not right. Most of the times he's like Mr Perfect and I swear I thought he was the most perfect guy I'd ever met...

But then.. He randomly disappeared for 3 days [I found out later he'd blocked me on MSN] and even though he knew I was worried about him, he didn't bother talking to me till three days after.

After that we became really into each other again, untill one Sunday morning he randomly dumped me, a mere two hours after excitedly planning my trip to where he lives [this is a long distance relationship] and in those two hours all he did was watch 300

He dumped me in the worst way ever and came across as a total ass, untill he unblocked me a few days later and we sorta went back to the way we were, though totally unofficially. Whenever either of us would mention feelings, he'd back off, and I started backing off as well.

Then things got interesting as he became really boyfriendy and kept talking about my upcoming trip to where he lives, and then one day, out of the blue, he dumped me again, a mere half hour after we had an absolutely normal conversation [during the half hour he had dinner thats all]

After that, he started talking to me again, and we went back to being kinda like the way we were, untill he suddenly grew distant after we spent a particularly good weekend talking on Voice Conversation. His backing off coincided with an attempt to make me jealous and I thought he thought that I didn't like him, so I tried to be more friendly to show I was interested etc

But he kept backing off, and I thought maybe he had stress from his upcoming exams or something, but then today we just had this massive argument about the plot of the movie 300 [I hate that movie so much atm] and he told me he was sick of me at the moment and asked me to "go away". He'd seemed kinda cranky even before I'd started talking to him so I know it wasn't the movie that upset him.

With him, he's always so mercurial he changes from hour to hour, sometimes minute to minute, and I can never understand what to do. Another weird thing is that he's always really really cranky on sundays [maybe from spending all his time at home?] and is always distant/short with me during then.

Whoever has been keeping up with the daily rise and fall of our relationship has said he seems like he has a split personality disorder, and after how he treated me today I'm starting to think the same way.

I've typed his symptoms into google and I came up with Bipolar disorder, do you think that could be possible? I also came up with Intermittent Explosive Disorder. He has a history of getting into "dont care" phases [and saw a councellor for it once and hence hates professional help] and he's just been through a lot emotionally lately since he split up with his very serious ex [which was his fault]

Please help me, I'm leaving for his country tomorrow and I've already written off my trip, but I really need to know how to handle him because frankly i'm losing patience [I have enough going on with my parents' divorce, my best friend acting like an ass and trying to pass grade 12] He's 18, currently doing his final grade 12 exams and i'm 16..

Thanks a lot for taking the time to read this..