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Q: Abortion - any perspectives as I'm pregnant
asked by: xoxtifflynnxox on October 16th, 2007
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if i am pregnant.
me and my BF talked about abortion.
i just want everyones perspective on what i should do.
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Sandbox Party
replied on October 16th, 2007
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i think you should post in the abortion forum, first and foremost.

you will get more advice.

^_^
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Tylanas
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Are you sure you want to post this here? You're going to get people calling you sick, twisted, and a murderer for considering abortion. If you want objective, non-hateful and non-religious toned responses, post to the Abortion Support or Pro-Choice forum. We won't always advise abortion as it is not right for everyone, but we won't call you a killer for considering it.
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kaiteo
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Research it, hunny.
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Jincks013
replied on October 16th, 2007
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xoxtifflynnxox wrote:
if i am pregnant.
me and my BF talked about abortion.
i just want everyones perspective on what i should do.


Seriously?
You need to really think hard about all your options. That you are hesitating and asking for advice is good. Maybe if we knew a bit more about your situation?
Is the timing good? how do you, personally, feel about aborting? How do you feel about adoption? or parenting? It really comes down to whats best for you not what I think or Eiri or Kaiteo think.
I'd read your post to mean you've talked about it but are not sure; which I interpret as you having doubts about abortion in which case I really wouldn't recommend it. It sounds like you have some questions about your options though.
This is a good place to ask those question and all of us; from Eiri to Guest will be happy to advise and help all we can.
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Sandbox Party
replied on October 16th, 2007
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honestly... if u cant decide for yourself on what to do, it leads me to think u arent mature enough to be having sex in the first place.

JMO.
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Tylanas
replied on October 16th, 2007
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I don't think it's not that she can't decide, but that she needs more information about it in order to make an intelligent, informed and unbiased decision.
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Sandbox Party
replied on October 17th, 2007
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Eiri wrote:
I don't think it's not that she can't decide, but that she needs more information about it in order to make an intelligent, informed and unbiased decision.


i hope so.
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Birch
replied on October 17th, 2007
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rainfire1424 wrote:
honestly... if u cant decide for yourself on what to do, it leads me to think u arent mature enough to be having sex in the first place.

JMO.


Very practical and helpful, rainfire. Cool
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Mabel
replied on October 17th, 2007
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Re: Abortion - Any Perspectives As I'm Pregnant
xoxtifflynnxox wrote:

i just want everyones perspective on what i should do.


The only perspective you need is your own. Before you start making decisions, or what not, please find out if you are pregnant. All this may be needless worry.

Planned parenthood clinics (or similar family planning clinics) are located in every town. They are low-cost or free and can talk to you about all your options.
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Verizon-y
replied on October 18th, 2007
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I don't believe this is a serious poster. How can you give NO INFORMATION and ask for advice?
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Verizon-y
replied on October 22nd, 2007
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Birch wrote:
rainfire1424 wrote:
honestly... if u cant decide for yourself on what to do, it leads me to think u arent mature enough to be having sex in the first place.

JMO.


Very practical and helpful, rainfire. Cool


Why do people say things like this when it's obviously A LITTLE LATE?

I would ask pro-lifers why they think someone who isn't mature enough to be having sex can be mature enough to handle pregnancy, childbirth, and parenthood?
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preciouschild
replied on November 28th, 2007
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Pro-life people aren't mean. My friend prolifenotprodeath never calls people a murderer or anything mean. It's not fair to quickly judge prolifers as a whole. I know that my friend can get you in contact with safe, reliable adoptive/during pregnancy agencies. She can be of great help to you. Let me know
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