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Q: Spotting w/ sharp pain + I'm sexually active
asked by: Shelly-Bell on October 16th, 2007
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Well it's been almost a week now. When the spotting first happened. I thought, oh hey I'm pregnant. But now I don't know.
I'm scared that something could be wrong, because when I go to the wash room and I wipe [this is normal] at first it was light brown.
Another time it was starting to get red, so I though it was my cycle finally starting. But then it went back to being brown spotting, then one day when I went to the wash room, [I had put a pad on a day or two after the spotting happened] and the pad wasn't full but it was used. It was brownish.

After that event, it went back to just extremely light where you can only see it when you wipe.
But when I went to the washroom today, my new pad had a thumb spot [a little more then the thumb (flat surface)] and it looked black.
I've also once in a while gotten this sharp pain, or sometimes just a small pain. It last for almost half a minute or so.

I'm just worried that somethings wrong, but I don't know how to talk to my mom about it. I told her about the pain, but I don't know how to talk to her about the other stuff. Cause she always said just wait, or it's nothing.
-Side Note: I'm also sexually active.


Any suggestions would be helpful.
Thanks Shelly Belly
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Mabel
replied on October 16th, 2007
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If you haven't tested for pregnancy and think you may be pregnant, take a test.

If pregnancy is not the issue, it may be a weird cycle for you.

Take a pregnancy test.
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Shelly-Bell
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Thanks, but I don't know.
The shooting pain has changed my mind about pregnancy.
I'm not quite sure.
Blah I'm confused.
Thanks.
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Mabel
replied on October 16th, 2007
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So you think you are... or you think you aren't?

Is your period late?
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young Girl
replied on October 16th, 2007
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go

to

the


doctor
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Shelly-Bell
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Well I'm not sure, and the_girlfreind. It's hard for me to go to the doctor. I have to consult with my mother first, and it's difficult.

I'm going to get a test sometime this week.
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young Girl
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Shelly-Bell wrote:
Well I'm not sure, and the_girlfreind. It's hard for me to go to the doctor. I have to consult with my mother first, and it's difficult.

I'm going to get a test sometime this week.


you should go to the doctor
if you are haveing sex you need to be tested for stds and get a pap smear
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Georgia59
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Spotting itself is not a sign of pregnancy. There could be a lot of reasons that you are spotting.

Have you had unprotected sex? (not just sex, but unprotected)

Is there a reason to think you are pregnant aside from the spotting?
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Shelly-Bell
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Yes I have had unprotected sex.
I've felt nauseated, bloated, tired, and my breast feel fuller.
I know they could also be signs that you're sick.
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young Girl
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Shelly-Bell wrote:
Yes I have had unprotected sex.
I've felt nauseated, bloated, tired, and my breast feel fuller.
I know they could also be signs that you're sick.


yeah it could be lots of things
if you dont want to be pregnant then get on birth control and stop haveing unproteced sex

like i said you SERIOUSLY need to go to the OBGYN for yearly pap smears and to get tested for stds
because you could have an std
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Shelly-Bell
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Thanks for the help.
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deathmuncher
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Hey I Would Like to Know Thx Asap
..... me and my girlfriend had sex a few days a go and know she is having stumach problems ....and we had safe sex .... and i was wondering can she get pregnant and it was the first time ... i am just wondering if she would ....
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Mabel
replied on October 16th, 2007
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She couldn't be having any pregnancy symptoms within a few days. The soonest she'd have symptoms would be when she missed her period.

Good for using protection!
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young Girl
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Re: Hey I Would Like to Know Thx Asap
deathmuncher wrote:
..... me and my girlfriend had sex a few days a go and know she is having stumach problems ....and we had safe sex .... and i was wondering can she get pregnant and it was the first time ... i am just wondering if she would ....


nos he is not feeling pregnancy symtptoms is takes about 4 weeks for them to show up

STAY CALM
shes NOT pregnant
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young Girl
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Shelly-Bell wrote:
Thanks for the help.


good luck hun and let us know how it goes! Very Happy
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Shelly-Bell
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Re: Hey I Would Like to Know Thx Asap
deathmuncher wrote:
..... me and my girlfriend had sex a few days a go and know she is having stumach problems ....and we had safe sex .... and i was wondering can she get pregnant and it was the first time ... i am just wondering if she would ....

IT is possible. But when I first had sex I had stomache problems too and I was sick. I'd say its normal. If you're worried, I would say go see a doctor.
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Shelly-Bell
replied on October 16th, 2007
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the_girlfreind wrote:
Shelly-Bell wrote:
Thanks for the help.


good luck hun and let us know how it goes! Very Happy

Thanks I will =)
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deathmuncher
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Re: Hey I Would Like to Know Thx Asap
Shelly-Bell wrote:
deathmuncher wrote:
..... me and my girlfriend had sex a few days a go and know she is having stumach problems ....and we had safe sex .... and i was wondering can she get pregnant and it was the first time ... i am just wondering if she would ....

IT is possible. But when I first had sex I had stomache problems too and I was sick. I'd say its normal. If you're worried, I would say go see a doctor.



well i am not worried ... it's just i don't want her to get kicked out of her house or for me to ...but thx anyways ....
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young Girl
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Re: Hey I Would Like to Know Thx Asap
deathmuncher wrote:
Shelly-Bell wrote:
deathmuncher wrote:
..... me and my girlfriend had sex a few days a go and know she is having stumach problems ....and we had safe sex .... and i was wondering can she get pregnant and it was the first time ... i am just wondering if she would ....

IT is possible. But when I first had sex I had stomache problems too and I was sick. I'd say its normal. If you're worried, I would say go see a doctor.



well i am not worried ... it's just i don't want her to get kicked out of her house or for me to ...but thx anyways ....


whats shes feeling is not from pregnancy ok? its wayy to soon
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deathmuncher
replied on October 16th, 2007
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Re: Hey I Would Like to Know Thx Asap
the_girlfreind wrote:
deathmuncher wrote:
Shelly-Bell wrote:
deathmuncher wrote:
..... me and my girlfriend had sex a few days a go and know she is having stumach problems ....and we had safe sex .... and i was wondering can she get pregnant and it was the first time ... i am just wondering if she would ....

IT is possible. But when I first had sex I had stomache problems too and I was sick. I'd say its normal. If you're worried, I would say go see a doctor.



well i am not worried ... it's just i don't want her to get kicked out of her house or for me to ...but thx anyways ....


whats shes feeling is not from pregnancy ok? its wayy to soon



Thx... iknow that it is not from pregnancy beacuse it is to early just i wanted to know because i really care about this girl ...and stuff but yeah ....o and the condom did not break aswell
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