HI,

My girlfriend and I have known each other for over 5 years, been dating for the past 8 months. We KNOW that we were always meant to be. In her past relationship (two years ago) she was hurt really bad. He lied all the time, cheated and left her. She has a very hard time trusting men.

Since we have been together, I have never once lied to her, always told her the truth.

A month ago, she was out of town and I was cleaning the house when she called to tell me that she was on her way home. I had trash everywhere, and knowing she was coming home, I hid the trash in all places.

Yesterday, I was at work and she was cleaning. While she was cleaning she found a bag of trash that I had stashed in my cleaning frenzy that had some of her personal documents that she had thrown away.

She called and told me that she had found what I was hiding from her, she thought I was sick and that she packed her stuff and was moving out. She told me she never wanted to see me again, and NOT to contact her.

I called and told her that she was overreacting, I meant to throw them away and that I would never lie to her! She said she has been lied to before by men and wasn't buying my crap.

I'VE NEVER GIVEN HER A REASON NOT TO TRUST ME....I'VE NEVER LIED TO HER...so why is she doing this?

I went today and took a Polygraph (she doesn't know I took it yet) and passed and it shows that I didn't nor have I ever lied to her.

What am I to do? How do I get her to talk to me...to trust me....how do I get her back. She is my whole world...PLEASE help!

On another note, her mother is a psychologist and has always been objective in the relationship. My girlfriend means the world to me, so since how she will not talk to me, should I go and talk to her mother and tell her my side of things?