nick's cousin died on saturday, he was only 22. he'd been struggling with MD his whole life and went in for surgery on saturday. from what we heard he either had a heart attack during or after surgery and he passed away.
nick hasn't seen this family in many many years and i've never met them. what do i write in the condolence card we're sending? i've actually been lucky enough that i've never had to deal with death on a personal level, so i'm kind of clueless here.
since nick hasn't seen them in ages and i don't know them at all i don't want to come across as insincere. we have had a little contact, they sent gifts for finn when he was born and they just sent a wedding gift, and i sent them a christmas card last year.
"we are truly sorry for your loss" - i don't really like the way that sounds.
"we are deeply saddened by your loss" - ?
anything?