My boyfriend came out and stayed with me
for a week. We had intercourse at least 7
times. 3 of which were unprotected because
we ran out of condoms, and one of those
times he didn't pull out in time.
For a couple weeks I thought I might be
pregnant. I took 2 home pregnancy tests
and both came out negative. I went to the
doctor and got a urine test done there
also and it came out negative as well.
A couple weeks after last having
intercourse I got my period but the blood
was brownish and I didn't bleed like I
usually did. It also only lasted 2 or 3
days when usually it lasts a week. A few
weeks after that I got a period that was
like my normal ones, but this strikes me
as odd because i'm extremely irregular. I
usually only get my period once every few
months.
Lately I've been getting a white substance
on my underwear when I go to go to the
bathroom. It's usually after I have to pee
for a while, but haven't. Also I notice a
clearish gooey discharge sometimes. And
the past couple days when I wipe I've
spotted a tiny bit of blood.
Could I still be pregnant. Or is there
something else wrong with me?
I'm only 15, and I can't tell my mother
that I think I could still be pregnant, or
possibly have an std. I was my boyfriends
second parter in his life, and he didn't
have any std's as far as we knew. I'm
afraid to go get it checked out. What do
you think?
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Maddie34
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Posted: 10-16-07 11:21am
The white substance is normal. I usually
get it when my period is a week or so away
but it comes and goes.
If you've been stressin over this thats a
good reason why your period is going
crazy, but if you're still worried then
take another test
Is there a reason you only get your period
once every few months?
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-16-07 11:22am
I don't think you are pregnant. The 'white
goo' you are having is called discharge
and it can be very normal. At 15 years old
your periods would be irregular. Irregular
means you don't have them at a set time
every month.
Since you are sexually active, it is time
to start having PAP smears and getting
checked for STDs. If you are grown up
enough for sex, you have to take what
comes with that ~ being responsible for
yourself and get checked for sexually
transmitted diseases.
NEVER, EVER have sex without a condom. I
don't care if they guy thinks he
doesn't have an STD. Many STDs are passed
around without either partner knowing they
have them! For instance, herpes is a
lifelong affliction (there is no cure!)
and it is passed around from partner to
partner usually when there is NO EVIDENCE
of the infection.
Same with AIDs. You can't SEE it. You
would have no way to know it was there.
Or gonorrhea. Or HPV. Or any numerous
other things.
Always protect yourself. Use condoms.
Go to the doctor and get checked. You are
not pregnant.
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youngconfusion
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Posted: 10-16-07 11:53am
i'm told that it's normal for me to be
irregular. I've been stressed for the past
few years, i have alot of things that go
on in my life, but my periods never gone
wack on me. it's always on time 2 or 3
months apart...
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-16-07 11:55am
youngconfusion
wrote:
i'm told that it's normal
for me to be irregular. I've been stressed
for the past few years, i have alot of
things that go on in my life, but my
periods never gone wack on me. it's always
on time 2 or 3 months
apart...
When did you start your period? Even if
you started when you were 12, you've only
been menstruating for 3 years. Trust me,
your periods change over time. This is a
fact of a woman's life.
If you've taken all these pregnancy tests,
you are not pregnant.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-16-07 15:17pm
Yeah you're just irregular because you're
young. Getting on birth control would
regulate your period.... you can tell your
mom that....
Otherwise, you can always go to a planned
parenthood or something like that to get
tested for pregnancy or std's. You can
also get plan b there, which would've been
a great thing for you to take after you
had unprotected sex- that's what it's for!
It's for those "uh-oh I messed up" times.
You can get that at a planned parenthood
too for a free or reduced price. PLUS,
planned parenthood won't tell your parents
or anyone else, and they won't charge you
much so you don't have to use your
parent's insurance to pay for it.
Look them up. There is probably one near
you, and they really are lifesavers. Tell
your parents you're going to a movie, and
have your bf or someone else (or the bus)
bring you there to get checked out for
anything you're worried about. You can
also get birth control/plan b/condoms
there.
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youngconfusion
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Posted: 10-18-07 13:45pm
Thank you Georgia. I'm going to look into
the planned parenthood, turns out it's not
too far away from my house. I took plan B
the time he was too late only i was afraid
it wouldn't work because we couldnt get
somewhere for him to buy it for me within
3 days of the incident. I didn't end up
taking the pill until 4 or 5 days
afterwards....
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-18-07 16:28pm
They are most effective within 3 days, but
you can still take them up to 5 days
later. You're probably fine.
