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Q: Attraction to Other Women's Hands
asked by: lisette1979 on October 15th, 2007
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I'm a late twenties, once divorced, single gal who has certainly been curious about sex with other women, but never acted on it. However, I have been aware since my late teens of an attraction to other women's hands, particularly well manicured, feminine ones, like my own. I'm somewhat obsessive about my own hands, and I do the parafin, etc. to keep them as soft as possible. I first became aroused in college when a female roomate gave me a very sensual hand massage, and I have had this "fetish" since. It's not all female hands, but certain pretty ones that look soft, and when I see a pair like that I'll try to initiate some kind of action, such as a handshake or looking at a ring. If I'm lucky , perhaps a hand massage or some fun hand holding. I've noticed that women respond differently to the touch of another woman's hand. Some are uncomfortable and tend to want to pull away right after a handshake , while some are neutral and some will linger the touch and really seem to enjoy the sensation of the soft skin on soft skin. I have met women who , after I make the 1st hand touch, will find a way to touch my hands several times after. I was at a wedding last weekend where a slightly tipsy bridesmaid pulled me out to the dance floor. A few minutes later, a slow song came on, and I waited to see her reaction, whether she would return to her table or want to slow dance. To my delight, she put one hand around my waist and one hand facing me, and I placed my palm against hers and we slowly interlocked fingers, locking our soft palms. She immediately complimented me on the softness of my paws. I told her I had a parafin dip that morning, and she said, oh my god, so did I !, and we both looked at our intertwined hands. She had really pretty hands, with long slender fingers and a french manicure. She gave my hand a nice squeeze, and she gently caressed my thumb with hers as we swayed slowly to the music. After the slow song, we introduced ourselves and shook hands, clasping them for a long time before slowly dragging palms and fingers as our hands seperated. She went off to her boyfriend so I had no chance of an interlude that night. I have only discussed this feeling with one girlfriend, who happens to be a masseuse, and she thinks this a pretty common thing with alot of women- I'm not sure however. She says that some female clients of hers ask for longer hand massages and she has a manuever where she gently takes the woman's wrist and pulls her toward her back, and some of the women will intentionally slide their hand into hers, and some will even interlock fingers. She will usually indulge them and do plenty of palm to palm contact. And the vast majority of them are married heterosexuals. I was having my nails done out of town a few months ago and had a young russian girl do my hand massage, and she had hand model quality hands, and the softest I've ever felt. She could tell I was enjoying her touch and gave me close to 10 minutes on each hand, and I about had an orgasm. As an excuse to do further hand holding with her, I asked if she wanted a hand massage since she always was the one who had to give and not receive. She gladly accepted and it gave me an opportunity to sensually recipricate, and I slid my fingers in and out of hers and gave her a very sexy hand massage. She didn't want me to stop! Anyway, just wanted to know if anyone else has felt this way.
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Georgia59
replied on October 15th, 2007
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I never had but I can see it. There are parts on women that can be very sexy. I don't think this alone would mean you were a lesbian, but why not give it a shot? It sounds like you might like it!
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samantha1979
replied on October 15th, 2007
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wow, your post was a real eye opener for me; i have had an attraction to pretty hands and also been turned on by a woman's hand touching mine. I have had some lesbian experiences, and touching hands was a big part of the foreplay and i usually locked hands with my lovers during oral sex as a way to further enjoy the unique and special feeling of soft skin on soft skin. it's an easy pleasure to indulge, because women naturally are more comfortable touching hands, and it's usually not an indication of lesbian tendencies. But i agree that alot of women seem to enjoy another woman's hand in their's, you see it all the time. Go to any club any night and you'll see women holding hands, slow dancing with hands locked and hi-fiving/locking hands. I even had a little tingle today when a pretty young thing shook hands with me at Nordstrum's- nice solid full grip with soft skin- my favourite! And when I asked the cosmetics gal for a sample of aveda hand cream, she offered to give me a hand massage and proceeded to do a great job- ( hand job? hehe ) what a fine morning! Go explore your fantasies !
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fiona05
replied on October 19th, 2007
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it may be of no interest to you whatsoever, but there are probably websites out there for hand fetishes! i stumbled across one www.ournails.com ... i think most of them are likely to be nail fetish sites but it's worth a look, anyway.

each to their own, as the saying goes. if women's hands are what get you off then so be it! everyonb's different. embrace your fetish Smile
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Tylanas
replied on October 19th, 2007
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That sounds like one of the most beautiful fetishes out there! I haven't had any experiences like that but reading about them made me want to Smile
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larissaxxoo
replied on October 21st, 2007
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There Is a Valid Biological Explanation Too
There was a study done on human touch a few years ago where men and women's brain waves and brain chemical release were monitored and measured in relation to being touched. Women registered much more brain wave pleasure center activity and dramatically increased endorphin release when touched than men did in general. But the highest readings of all were registered when women were touched by women, including tests that involved female/ female hand to hand contact. Perhaps the reason most women touch each other's hands so often and easily is a subconscious quest for the chemical release of "feel-good" endorphins. The brain tends to seek behavior that rewards these pleasure receptors, so it makes perfect sense that after a woman feels the "rewards" of touching another woman's hand, she will seek to repeat it- by touching hands again & again. Becoming aroused sexually is a whole different thing altogether, but it isn't too far removed from the aforementioned feelings. Who really knows, right? But I thought it would be interesting to explore.
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samantha1979
replied on October 28th, 2007
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There is a video company run by women- they make lesbian dvd's for female viewing, called Girlfriends Films. The dvd typically has 4 vignettes with four different couples, and they are very well produced- much different than male produced dvd's. With women directing, you have alot of subtle build-up leading to more intense foreplay and sex. The actresses do alot of hand holding and mutual hand touching in general, with nice close ups of pretty female hands intertwining. The producers and viewers of these dvd's obviously understand the unique eroticism of two female hands intertwining.
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RebeccaLuv
replied on November 1st, 2007
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It's Part of Femininity
Very Happy I had only one brief fling with another woman, but we held hands alot, from the first handshake to the first slowdance to the last lovemaking.
My friend was from Ukraine, a touchy-feely culture anyway when it comes to woman/woman interaction. I also think that hand touching is a trait of femininity, women like the assuring female hand touch naturally. But it can and does become sensual and erotic when 2 women are attracted to each other, although I don't know how often the hand holding itself is a catalyst to lesbian love. Sounds like it will be in your case, and the sensation you enjoy when another woman's hand touches yours will be a part of your sexuality and lovemaking.
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samantha1979
replied on November 10th, 2007
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Well Put
rebecca, i think you said it best- come to think of it , i think i'd like to hold hands with you- lol
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