Attraction to Other Women's Hands Posted: 10-15-07 16:22pm
I'm a late twenties, once divorced, single
gal who has certainly been curious about
sex with other women, but never acted on
it. However, I have been aware since my
late teens of an attraction to other
women's hands, particularly well
manicured, feminine ones, like my own. I'm
somewhat obsessive about my own hands, and
I do the parafin, etc. to keep them as
soft as possible. I first became aroused
in college when a female roomate gave me a
very sensual hand massage, and I have had
this "fetish" since. It's not all female
hands, but certain pretty ones that look
soft, and when I see a pair like that I'll
try to initiate some kind of action, such
as a handshake or looking at a ring. If
I'm lucky , perhaps a hand massage or some
fun hand holding. I've noticed that women
respond differently to the touch of
another woman's hand. Some are
uncomfortable and tend to want to pull
away right after a handshake , while some
are neutral and some will linger the touch
and really seem to enjoy the sensation of
the soft skin on soft skin. I have met
women who , after I make the 1st hand
touch, will find a way to touch my hands
several times after. I was at a wedding
last weekend where a slightly tipsy
bridesmaid pulled me out to the dance
floor. A few minutes later, a slow song
came on, and I waited to see her reaction,
whether she would return to her table or
want to slow dance. To my delight, she put
one hand around my waist and one hand
facing me, and I placed my palm against
hers and we slowly interlocked fingers,
locking our soft palms. She immediately
complimented me on the softness of my
paws. I told her I had a parafin dip that
morning, and she said, oh my god, so did I
!, and we both looked at our intertwined
hands. She had really pretty hands, with
long slender fingers and a french
manicure. She gave my hand a nice squeeze,
and she gently caressed my thumb with hers
as we swayed slowly to the music. After
the slow song, we introduced ourselves and
shook hands, clasping them for a long time
before slowly dragging palms and fingers
as our hands seperated. She went off to
her boyfriend so I had no chance of an
interlude that night. I have only
discussed this feeling with one
girlfriend, who happens to be a masseuse,
and she thinks this a pretty common thing
with alot of women- I'm not sure however.
She says that some female clients of hers
ask for longer hand massages and she has a
manuever where she gently takes the
woman's wrist and pulls her toward her
back, and some of the women will
intentionally slide their hand into hers,
and some will even interlock fingers. She
will usually indulge them and do plenty of
palm to palm contact. And the vast
majority of them are married
heterosexuals. I was having my nails done
out of town a few months ago and had a
young russian girl do my hand massage, and
she had hand model quality hands, and the
softest I've ever felt. She could tell I
was enjoying her touch and gave me close
to 10 minutes on each hand, and I about
had an orgasm. As an excuse to do further
hand holding with her, I asked if she
wanted a hand massage since she always was
the one who had to give and not receive.
She gladly accepted and it gave me an
opportunity to sensually recipricate, and
I slid my fingers in and out of hers and
gave her a very sexy hand massage. She
didn't want me to stop! Anyway, just
wanted to know if anyone else has felt
this way.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-15-07 16:36pm
I never had but I can see it. There are
parts on women that can be very sexy. I
don't think this alone would mean you were
a lesbian, but why not give it a shot? It
sounds like you might like it!
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samantha1979
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I Know What You're Talking About Posted: 10-15-07 16:53pm
wow, your post was a real eye opener for
me; i have had an attraction to pretty
hands and also been turned on by a woman's
hand touching mine. I have had some
lesbian experiences, and touching hands
was a big part of the foreplay and i
usually locked hands with my lovers during
oral sex as a way to further enjoy the
unique and special feeling of soft skin on
soft skin. it's an easy pleasure to
indulge, because women naturally are more
comfortable touching hands, and it's
usually not an indication of lesbian
tendencies. But i agree that alot of women
seem to enjoy another woman's hand in
their's, you see it all the time. Go to
any club any night and you'll see women
holding hands, slow dancing with hands
locked and hi-fiving/locking hands. I even
had a little tingle today when a pretty
young thing shook hands with me at
Nordstrum's- nice solid full grip with
soft skin- my favourite! And when I asked
the cosmetics gal for a sample of aveda
hand cream, she offered to give me a hand
massage and proceeded to do a great job- (
hand job? hehe ) what a fine morning! Go
explore your fantasies !
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fiona05
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Posted: 10-19-07 10:32am
it may be of no interest to you
whatsoever, but there are probably
websites out there for hand fetishes! i
stumbled across one www.ournails.com ...
i think most of them are likely to be nail
fetish sites but it's worth a look,
anyway.
each to their own, as the saying goes. if
women's hands are what get you off then so
be it! everyonb's different. embrace your
fetish
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-19-07 22:39pm
That sounds like one of the most beautiful
fetishes out there! I haven't had any
experiences like that but reading about
them made me want to
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larissaxxoo
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There Is a Valid Biological Explanation Too Posted: 10-21-07 15:02pm
There was a study done on human touch a
few years ago where men and women's brain
waves and brain chemical release were
monitored and measured in relation to
being touched. Women registered much more
brain wave pleasure center activity and
dramatically increased endorphin release
when touched than men did in general. But
the highest readings of all were
registered when women were touched by
women, including tests that involved
female/ female hand to hand contact.
Perhaps the reason most women touch each
other's hands so often and easily is a
subconscious quest for the chemical
release of "feel-good" endorphins. The
brain tends to seek behavior that rewards
these pleasure receptors, so it makes
perfect sense that after a woman feels the
"rewards" of touching another woman's
hand, she will seek to repeat it- by
touching hands again & again. Becoming
aroused sexually is a whole different
thing altogether, but it isn't too far
removed from the aforementioned feelings.
Who really knows, right? But I thought it
would be interesting to explore.
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samantha1979
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Girlfriends Posted: 10-28-07 10:30am
There is a video company run by women-
they make lesbian dvd's for female
viewing, called Girlfriends Films. The dvd
typically has 4 vignettes with four
different couples, and they are very well
produced- much different than male
produced dvd's. With women directing, you
have alot of subtle build-up leading to
more intense foreplay and sex. The
actresses do alot of hand holding and
mutual hand touching in general, with nice
close ups of pretty female hands
intertwining. The producers and viewers of
these dvd's obviously understand the
unique eroticism of two female hands
intertwining.
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RebeccaLuv
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It's Part of Femininity Posted: 11-01-07 12:21pm
I had only
one brief fling with another woman, but we
held hands alot, from the first handshake
to the first slowdance to the last
lovemaking.
My friend was from Ukraine, a touchy-feely
culture anyway when it comes to
woman/woman interaction. I also think that
hand touching is a trait of femininity,
women like the assuring female hand touch
naturally. But it can and does become
sensual and erotic when 2 women are
attracted to each other, although I don't
know how often the hand holding itself is
a catalyst to lesbian love. Sounds like it
will be in your case, and the sensation
you enjoy when another woman's hand
touches yours will be a part of your
sexuality and lovemaking.
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samantha1979
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Well Put Posted: 11-10-07 16:20pm
rebecca, i think you said it best- come
to think of it , i think i'd like to hold
hands with you- lol