hey.. I'm 22 and I really wanted to wait
until I got married before having an
actual sexual intercourse and loosing my
virginity. But last week I had a small
accident with my boyfriend, we were
fooling around and he kind of caressed my
vagina with his member, but he got carried
away and tried to get inside of me. I got
scared and suddenly jerked and felt him
hit a wall inside of me but he was out in
a second, I mean he didn't go all the way
inside of me. It was a bit painful and it
happened so fast and I don't really know
if my hymen is still unbroken. There were
a couple of drops of blood on my panties
after that but that was it, no serious
bleeding. We called a doctor and he told
us that my bf probably just injured my
hymen and that it would heal back again
but we should be very careful next time.
But I can't help but wonder, what if?
Can somebody help me plz??
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Rm080781
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Joined: 15 Oct 2007 Posts: 29 Location: , SC
Posted: 10-15-07 15:50pm
It sounds like you broke your hymen. In
my opinion, if he went in at all, that
means you arent a virgin anymore.
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Confused_Stressed
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Joined: 10 Aug 2007 Posts: 62 Location: Spokane, wa USA
Posted: 10-15-07 15:55pm
honestly you can break your hymen doing
sports so who honestly knows if you still
have a hymen at this age? You can
consider yourself a virgin, thats on you
tho.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-15-07 16:03pm
Having an intact hymen or not has nothing
to do with virginity. You are no longer a
virgin when you decide you aren't.
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-15-07 16:25pm
just because he broke youre hymen doesnt
mean crap
i had sveeral partners before my hymen was
broken
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-15-07 16:38pm
And my hymen was broken long before I ever
had sex!
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hillary_lc_lauren
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Joined: 08 Oct 2007 Posts: 13 Location: alabama, usa
Posted: 10-15-07 19:24pm
well me and my hubby were hacin sex for
about a month because my hymen was broken.
being a virgin is totally up to you. i
would just suggest that if you want to
stay a virgin not to get carried away
again.
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xsgtpsychotic
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Joined: 07 Oct 2007 Posts: 13 Location: , fl united states
Posted: 10-15-07 19:51pm
It all really depends on what you think.
I don't see the point of remaining a
virgin if you're goign to get that close
to sex, but alright. Anyways, if he broke
your hymen I'd concider you devirginized
but then again like everyone else was
saying your hymen could have easily broken
from sports before so who knows if you
even had one. Sounds like he broke it
tho.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-15-07 19:52pm
I think you're still a virgin. It takes
actual consentual vagina sex tot make you
no longer a virgin and that didn't happen.
