Childbirth can affect the "tightness" of your vagina. It is the ONLY thing that can. Having sex will not make you looser, it was definitely from giving birth if he's noticing a difference.

If it is really impeding your sex life, you can try doing kegals to strengthen the muscles and squeeze him while he's in there.

But tell him to get over it!! Childbirth is hard on a woman's body.

I agree with georgia. Tell him to get over it. It is hard on your body to carry that baby 9 months.

You had a c-section so you didn't have a vaginal delivery... so you shouldn't be any 'looser' than you were before.

Sounds like he needs to grow up and remember that you are parents now and sex does change as you get older. It gets better

I missed the c-section part lol. Would her pelvic bones still have loosened a little, just from the pregnancy, though ingi?

But it's not from sex, that's for sure.

I don't *think* pregnancy "loosens" the bones of the pelvis

One time asked if vaginal delivery would make the woman looser down there and it seemed like the majority said it goes back to how it was before..Georgia so for you did you got looser like that?

No no, I've never given birth!! I'm just going off of what I've heard women say on here mostly. I do know that the pelvic bones in a woman do get wider when they've had children- you can tell on a skeleton usually if the women's given birth or not. Right? I'm not crazy, I don't think... I don't know if that's from the actual birthing process or just being pregnant though.

Hmm well regardless, the thing that will MOST effect your "tightness" is how lubricated you are and how turned on/relaxed you are. If you are very turned on and well lubricated, you might feel looser, likewise if you are really dry or nervous, you will feel tight (and it would probably hurt!)

Totally agree with Georgia49. It's more related to how lubricated you are. I had two vaginal births with horrible tear (3 degree- all the way to the anal). I asked my dh how he felt about my virgina. He always said no difference.

I had 2 c-sections myself (2 sets of twins) but I have heard it goes back to what it was before delivery. I know that the pelvic bones loosen later in pregnancy to accomodate a delivery but I think they go back to what they were before.