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Q: How Can I Dribble Cum Instead of Shooting When Masterbating
asked by: Bren86 on October 14th, 2007
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I was cercumcised 5 weeks ago so before the cercumcision I was always used to capturing the cum in the foreskin first or it just dribbling out, it prob was intending to shoot out but because I had foreskin over the head it never ever shooted out at all.

Anyways after 5 weeks of not masterbating due to the operation, I cummed all up my stomach and chest and nearly gave myself a facial, I wasn't expecting that, it shoots out everytime. I have to like put my hand over the top of the head to shoot on my hand.

I see in porn that they can dribble it out, how do I do that.
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Tylanas
replied on October 14th, 2007
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I don't know, but why would you want to? Most men complain when they only dribble! You'll simply have to adapt to your new body.
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Bren86
replied on October 14th, 2007
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Well I'm glad I can now shoot it out its a new experience but it just makes things more messy for me. I guess I just need to get used to it. Not only do I cum all over now but I have to use lube or whatever to masterbate which I didn't before I was cercumcised. Its all a messy less convenient process now, I have to plan my masterbates now lol.

Like I was in bed and thought I have a quick one then go to sleep but nope I had to get up and have a shower cus it managed to creep past my hand and onto my stomach and I had lube all over one hand also. I was on my back so luckily the penis was not aimed up slightly otherwise it would have landed on my face I'm sure.
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HealthySex
replied on October 14th, 2007
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Haha. That's funny. Sorry to laugh, but many men come here asking on how to do the opposite.

Strength of ejaculate for the most part has to do with how your muscles contract shooting it out. Strength of these muscles as well as your arousal, amount of ejaculate, and how long you spent building up to the ejaculation seem to play a role.

There's really no reason to change anything, so instead just adapt. I can shoot very far at times and other times just several inches, but never really spent any thought on when each occurs. Perhaps holding your BC muscles tight as you ejaculate would slow it down, just like they stop or slow urination.

Otherwise, use some tissue to clean up and also block the ejaculate from shooting too far. You could aim it into your stomach and hopefully it won't ricochet to your face, heh. I've almost given myself a facial several times, and I think I might have knicked myself once too.

As far as masturbating circumcised you don't necessarily have to use lube. I say "necessarily" because I don't know your situation. However, I'm circumcised and the vast majority of my masturbation has always been dry handed. If you can grip your shaft you may have enough skin that can roll over the crown of your glans. It doesn't need to be able to cover the entire erect glans for this to work. Just enough to roll over the crown and create enjoyable stimulation. Being able to do this depends on where you receive your enjoyable stimulation, how much extra skin there is, and I'd also like to mention how healed you are. I wouldn't want you tugging on skin that hasn't fully healed yet.
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Bren86
replied on October 15th, 2007
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Well around the penis the stitches have come out but the cut is still abit tight and sore so I can't pull it over the head of my penis at all at the moment, maybe in the future once its fully healed and I can work on stretching the skin a bit.
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Georgia59
replied on October 15th, 2007
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Wait.... if you've been circumcized, you shouldn't be able to pull anything over the head of the penis, right??I think Healthy is just talking about the skin on the penis (shaft). You shouldn't be stretching the tiny amount of foreskin you have left. Right?
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HealthySex
replied on October 15th, 2007
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The skin on the shaft can be pulled over the head of the penis depending on the extent of the circumcision. Some men have a lot of extra skin, others have so little erections are hampered because of such a tight cut and lack of skin.

Flaccid I can pull my skin completely over the penis. Erect I can pull it up half way over the glans.

And no, he probably shouldn't be stretching it until he's completely healed for some time. However, stretching it through masturbation will not restore his foreskin to a pre-circumcision state. That would take years of purposeful stretching.
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Georgia59
replied on October 15th, 2007
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Hmm... penises are so complicated.

So there's no difference between the foreskin and the skin on the shaft? Like, foreskin is just an extension on the rest of the skin?
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paul995
replied on October 15th, 2007
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whaaaat??? I've read some guys asking how to shoot because all their penises could do is dribble . . . and here's a guy asking how to dribble . . . hmmm . . .

here's my take:

If you're too horny, then most probably, you would shoot. If so-so, it'll just dribble. I don't know, but that's just me . . . hehehe
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Tylanas
replied on October 15th, 2007
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Georgia59 wrote:
Hmm... penises are so complicated.

So there's no difference between the foreskin and the skin on the shaft? Like, foreskin is just an extension on the rest of the skin?

Well, the foreskin is filled with a lot more nerve endings that normal penile skin. Not as many as the head, but more than the rest of the penis.
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Georgia59
replied on October 15th, 2007
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ahh. I think I get it. Maybe I should just google some pictures and study them lol. I've never been with a guy who wasn't circumcised.
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Tylanas
replied on October 15th, 2007
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This is an excellent site. I suggest viewing all of the images in the small, color versions all on one page, and then clicking on ("The Three Zones of Penile Skin" only. Five medium-size color images, with commentary, on one web page.) as it explains the foreskin in detail.

http://www.foreskin.org/
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hornyjay
replied on October 18th, 2007
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I agree with Pau995...it involves many factors, some of which follow:

1) Amount of semen stored in prostate gland (how long since your last ejaculation?)
2) Strength of your pubocoxygeal muscles (clench the anus muscles)
3) Constriction of urethra during beginning of orgasm
a) by constricting, pressure from contractions builds behind constriction
b) when you let go of constriction, it will shoot farther

So if you only want to dribble, just start doing it every day, and see if your distance doesn't decrease. Hope that helps!
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Tylanas
replied on October 18th, 2007
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1. Semen is NOT stored in the prostate. Sperm is stored in the testes. However, yes, if you have recently ejaculated, it may lessen the "umph" of a subsequent ejaculation.
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hornyjay
replied on October 21st, 2007
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Correction...
Eiri is right, that was definitely an incorrect simplification...

What I was referring to was not a "long term" storage, but the final moments before male orgasm, wherein many things are all happening, and the sperm, semen, and lubricating fluids are all coming together in the region of the prostate/seminal vesicles/bulb of urethra at internal base of the penis.
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KornJL33
replied on October 23rd, 2007
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Eiri wrote:
This is an excellent site. I suggest viewing all of the images in the small, color versions all on one page, and then clicking on ("The Three Zones of Penile Skin" only. Five medium-size color images, with commentary, on one web page.) as it explains the foreskin in detail.

http://www.foreskin.org/


holy caca, i looked at the first picture and almost threw up. that was the sickest thing i have ever seen. I thought everyone was circumcised, so i looked to see what an uncircumsised penis looked at, and boy was i sorry. holy caca, that was so gross.. i feel queezy... lol
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Tylanas
replied on October 23rd, 2007
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KornJL33 wrote:
Eiri wrote:
This is an excellent site. I suggest viewing all of the images in the small, color versions all on one page, and then clicking on ("The Three Zones of Penile Skin" only. Five medium-size color images, with commentary, on one web page.) as it explains the foreskin in detail.

http://www.foreskin.org/


holy health question, i looked at the first picture and almost threw up. that was the sickest thing i have ever seen. I thought everyone was circumcised, so i looked to see what an uncircumsised penis looked at, and boy was i sorry. holy health question, that was so gross.. i feel queezy... lol

Well I'm glad your eyes have been opened to what your body is actually supposed to look like. Furthermore, most of the world is uncircumcised. Men with mutilated penises like yours are actually the minority.

It's pretty close-minded that you thought everyone was circumcised. Do you know what circumcision entails?
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KornJL33
replied on October 23rd, 2007
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well, i know that most people around the rest of the world arent circumcised, but i thought that most babies were circumcised when they were born. Its also easier to keep clean and all if ur circumcised. It even mentions something about it in the Bible about getting circumcised. My dad's a doctor, so i was circumcised.
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Tylanas
replied on October 23rd, 2007
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You do realise you just contradicted yourself?

"i know that most people around the rest of the world arent circumcised..."
"but i thought that most babies were circumcised when they were born..."

All people in the world were babies at one point, so clearly MOST babies are not being circumcised.

So what if it's in the Bible? Most of the world isn't Christian. It can be easier to keep clean, but you lose a vital sexual organ. Yes, the foreskin is a necessary sexual organ!

The foreskin isn't even supposed to come away from the head of the penis until late in puberty, yet doctors rip it from the head of a baby's penis and slice it off. Pleasant.

Men lose a high amount of sensitivity when this happens. A missing foreskin also makes sex more unpleasant for the female, as there is no cushion between her body and the penis.

Your dad is a member of one of the three Monotheistic religions, THAT's why you were circumcised. Most doctors these days realise how harmful circumcision is and do not advise it be done unless for religious reasons.
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KornJL33
replied on October 24th, 2007
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i didnt mean to contradict myself. it was late when i wrote it. i meant to say that other countries aren't circumcised, but i thought that most babies that were born in the U.S. were, due tto problems like cancer that can form from not keeping it clean.

my dad's a doctor, and he told me that a lot of black people dont get circumcised cuz they dont want to pay the extra money or something.

my dad is a very intelligent man. one of the major religions is christianity/catholic, so i figured a lot of people were circumcised. no one i can think of hasn't been circumcised.
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