i used to cut myself and it took a while
for me to quit doing it but now when ever
i get really stressed or just cant handle
things my boyfriend freaks because he is
scared i am going to do it again what can
i say to him to make him relax about it?
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Dannzibelle
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Joined: 23 Oct 2006 Posts: 3784 Location: South East, England
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Posted: 10-14-07 15:44pm
Just outline that you're not going to do
it again because that part of your life is
behind you. Aslong as you are happy now
and know that you won't do it again that's
all that matters, he will get the picture
sooner or later when you don't do it
anymore
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xxbbbrittany
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Joined: 11 Oct 2007 Posts: 59 Location: ,
Posted: 10-14-07 15:46pm
well i have done it one time since i
stopped and that was when i got into some
caca with my life and i almost went to the
hospital so he freaked out and told me if
it happened again then we were over
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 10-14-07 16:02pm
Saying that to you isn't going to help
you, threatening someone in to stopping
self harming is never going to help it
will make you more likely to do it. If my
boyfriend said that to me (before we had
our daughter obviously) i'd be the one
telling him it's over
