Condoms are very effective when used correctly. I used them for 6 months and was just fine.

I don't know if you will bleed. Sex should never hurt, even the first time. Use a TON of lube, way more than you think you'll need. You can buy lube in lots of places. Put the condom on before the lube, lol. Make sure you're very turned on already, possibly even orgasm once before he even tries to put himself inside. He should feel around with his fingers first and look down there, to make sure he knows where your vaginal entrance actually is. If one or two fingers is painful, then you're probably not ready for sex yet.

oh, i can put like 3 fingers in and it's not painful at all. also, guys have fingered me and such and that didn't hurt either.

Don't worry you wont hurt. just be carefull how the condom is worn. So it wont brake.

i could only fit one finger in before i had sex, and it was extremely painful. i would definately practice first!

thanks for the advice, but when u say practice...what do u mean? i masturbate often and i always have clitural(idk how 2 spell it) orgasms

thats exactly what i mean. or have him do it.

oh ok, thanks

Condoms are very effective when used correctly! I was very tight when I first had sex and actually bled the first few times while having sex, but its not the same for everyone.

It would be wise that since you are interested in sexual relations from now on that you go to a doctor and you get yourself in a more reliable form of birth control such as pills. Then question your guy is he is got any std's just to make sure everything is okay..As for the sex first time you will have your own experience and you may or not bleed.

Chances are, you won't hurt, you won't bleed, and you will enjoy yourself quite a bit.

Condoms are plenty effective if you use them correctly. Use lube because it decreases the chances that they'll break. And if you are concerned, you can keep some plan b around in case one breaks while you use it. That's really the only way something can go wrong, all condoms on the market now are rigorously tested and nothing gets through as long as they are intact.

But yes, make sure he has no std's, and you might want to think about getting on a different kind of birth control if you think that is for you, mostly because you might get sick of using condoms! You sound like you will be fine.