Never Had Sex But Wanna...i Need Advice Posted: 10-13-07 11:22am
ok i've never had sex before, virgin. lol
and this guy wants to, and so do i. we've
done other stuff in the past but we never
actually had sex. the thing is that my
sister just found out that she's pregnant
and i'm afraid i would get prego if i do
it. ok so if we use a condom what r my
chances that i will? it's not like he is
pressuring me or anything, because i
really want to. and also another question,
will i bleed?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-13-07 11:40am
Condoms are very effective when used
correctly. I used them for 6 months and
was just fine.
I don't know if you will bleed. Sex should
never hurt, even the first time. Use a TON
of lube, way more than you think you'll
need. You can buy lube in lots of places.
Put the condom on before the lube, lol.
Make sure you're very turned on already,
possibly even orgasm once before he even
tries to put himself inside. He should
feel around with his fingers first and
look down there, to make
sure he knows where your vaginal entrance
actually is. If one or two fingers is
painful, then you're probably not ready
for sex yet.
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alleybabe_16
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Posted: 10-13-07 12:03pm
oh, i can put like 3 fingers in and it's
not painful at all. also, guys have
fingered me and such and that didn't hurt
either.
Don't worry you wont hurt. just be
carefull how the condom is worn. So it
wont brake.
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popminer
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Posted: 10-13-07 12:11pm
i could only fit one finger in before i
had sex, and it was extremely painful. i
would definately practice first!
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alleybabe_16
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Posted: 10-13-07 12:20pm
thanks for the advice, but when u say
practice...what do u mean? i masturbate
often and i always have clitural(idk how 2
spell it) orgasms
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popminer
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Posted: 10-13-07 12:27pm
thats exactly what i mean. or have him do
it.
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alleybabe_16
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Posted: 10-13-07 12:29pm
oh ok, thanks
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emerald1
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Posted: 10-13-07 13:58pm
Condoms are very effective when used
correctly! I was very tight when I first
had sex and actually bled the first few
times while having sex, but its not the
same for everyone.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 10-13-07 18:39pm
It would be wise that since you are
interested in sexual relations from now on
that you go to a doctor and you get
yourself in a more reliable form of birth
control such as pills. Then question your
guy is he is got any std's just to make
sure everything is okay..As for the sex
first time you will have your own
experience and you may or not bleed.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-13-07 22:13pm
Chances are, you won't hurt, you won't
bleed, and you will enjoy yourself quite a
bit.
Condoms are plenty effective if you use
them correctly. Use lube because it
decreases the chances that they'll break.
And if you are concerned, you can keep
some plan b around in case one breaks
while you use it. That's really the only
way something can go wrong, all condoms on
the market now are rigorously tested and
nothing gets through as long as they are
intact.
But yes, make sure he has no std's, and
you might want to think about getting on a
different kind of birth control if you
think that is for you, mostly because you
might get sick of using condoms! You sound
like you will be fine.
