we have had this question before and we didn't even answered due to being irrational.

What about this question is irrational, Nightangel? Educate me. I'd love to know.

actually Kaiteo's question is valid. *Waits for response*

For me, I'd go with my heart. If it told me to have sex with a man and that men were sexy, no matter WHAT the predominant religion was saying (since I don't follow it anyway) I'd have sex with men! Would I give ladies a try? I probably would. But I wouldn't deny myself my natural urges.

Thanks Jincks and Eiri
Nightangel and anybody else, just humor me. It's a "what if" scenario. Answering the question isn't hurting anything, am I correct?

i dont care about heaven or hell.

i wont base my happiness on the judgement of others.

i do what makes ME happy.. no one else.

You shouldn't change who you are just because it's not what your God wants, if you ask me then if your God says something you find enjoyable and makes you happy is wrong then they're not much of a God to me. If this causes offence i'm sorry but that's just the way i see it. I'm bisexual and i'm prud to be, it makes me happy and i'll be bisexual until the day i die

its a misguided question - Christianity does not say YOU MUST BE ATRRACTED TO THE OPPOSITE SEX

I see what your trying to do, put the shoe on the other foot, but it is different your trying to force someone against their sexuality to engage in sex the church does not do this, fundementally the question turns the whole of Christianity upside down, its doctrines everything, you dont realise the difficulty with your question.

My honest answer is....


I would be wiling to abstain from hetrosexual sex for the glory of the kingdom of God but I would not be willing to engage in sex with someone I do not feel attracted to or love.

"The church doesn't do that" does it not?
PWN'D !

http://www.catholic.com/library/Early_Teac hings_on_Homosexuality.asp - oh but my dear Guest.. it does and has..

Then what does it say, Guest?

I was raised Catholic and was told that heterosexual sex was the only moral kind of sex my entire life.

I went with what felt right, started dating men, found Mr. Right, and I've never been happier.

Good for you I'm happy for you!

"Then what does it say, Guest?"

The Church does not permit its members to engage in homosexual sex acts even if they are attracted to the same sex, but it does not say HOMOSEXUALS MUST BE ATTRACTED TO THE OPPOSITE SEX, it does not force them to engage in sex with members of the opposite sex, infact it argues that a homosexual should not be engaging in hetrosexual sex.

"The church doesn't do that" does it not?
PWN'D !

http://www.catholic.com/library/Early _Teachings_on_Homosexuality.asp - oh but my dear Guest.. it does and has.. "

Please give me the passage wich says a homosexual MUST BE ATTRACTED TO THE OPPOISTE SEX,

"I was raised Catholic and was told that heterosexual sex was the only moral kind of sex my entire life. "

Then they are wrong, the only moral kind of sex according to Christianity is sex within holy matrimony,

Hetrosexual sex can be immoral too!

Oh my GOD. I just realized how bad of a person I am. I shouldn't be pregnant! I shouldn't have had sex before I married Nick! I'm going to hellllll
Who cares. I don't. You are bad at arguing your point. Really, you make absolutely no sense most of the time.

So homosexual sex is ok as long as they are married, right?

Holy matrimony is only for man and woman

What about normal matrimony? Is that okay?

Not if your a christian