As in, it beads on the tip of his penis.
I realize it is natural, however, is there
anyway he can make it stop? I personally
don't really mind but I've never felt him
without a condom. Which I'd like to, even
if it is only for a couple thrusts.
He's the kind of guy who has always had
sex with BC and a condom. I'm not blaming
him, I'm in no position to be pregnant any
time soon. But I'd love to feel some skin
on skin. We're both clean, so we don't
have to worry about any STD's.
Any advice, views or if you can relate?
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joeln1222
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Posted: 10-11-07 14:41pm
well if you want to feel some skin on skin
you can just be on the birth control and
if you want there are special things you
can ask your doctor about its spermacide
that you put in you vagina and it kills
the sperm when it enters you
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JackJill
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Posted: 10-11-07 14:45pm
I know I can just use birth control when
having sex with him. It's him that doesn't
feel comfortable inserting his penis in me
because he leaks.
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joeln1222
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Posted: 10-11-07 15:04pm
He shouldnt be uncomftorable with it
becuase everyone leaks, its called precum
and every man does it during sex and any
sexual encounter. Its meant to be
lubrication but it also contains sperm
tell him not tot worry about it
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-11-07 15:14pm
Isn't that the point? You want it to leak!
J/K
I agree that a sponge or VCF (vaginal
contraceptive film) would be a good
alternate if he isn't trusting the birth
control- skin on skin, but with the added
protection. You don't need to get these
from a doctor, either.
It might irritate your vagina, though.
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-11-07 15:50pm
umm even if he puts it in for a "few
thrusts" you could get preg
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-11-07 15:54pm
JackJill
wrote:
I know I can just use birth
control when having sex with him. It's him
that doesn't feel comfortable inserting
his penis in me because he
leaks.
yeah its pre ejaculate and you could get
preg from it so hes being smart
use protection
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JackJill
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Posted: 10-11-07 16:01pm
I want to sigh at people who think they
know everything.
Tibbs, I realize this, I'm not offended by
white sticky fluid. Neither is he.
We're just a little paranoid about
pregnancy. Which is why we abstain from
not using the condom.
And GF, we do use protection.
My main question was is there any way to
stop it.
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joeln1222
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Joined: 10 Oct 2007 Posts: 7
Posted: 10-11-07 16:09pm
no its all natural and if you want to feel
hskin to skin you need to take chances
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JackJill
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Posted: 10-11-07 16:10pm
No thank you!
Thanks for clearing things up Joel and
Georgia!
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-11-07 16:55pm
JackJill
wrote:
I want to sigh at people who
think they know everything.
Tibbs, I realize this, I'm not offended by
white sticky fluid. Neither is he.
We're just a little paranoid about
pregnancy. Which is why we abstain from
not using the condom.
And GF, we do use protection.
My main question was is there any way to
stop it.
right
if you are paranoid of pregnancy then dont
do it because you could get pregnant from
it!
and no
there is no way to stop him from dripping
its going to happen
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mr tibbs
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Joined: 09 Feb 2007 Posts: 51 Location: england
Apologies! Posted: 10-12-07 11:35am
JackJill
wrote:
I want to sigh at people who
think they know everything.
Tibbs, I realize this, I'm not offended by
white sticky fluid. Neither is he.
We're just a little paranoid about
pregnancy. Which is why we abstain from
not using the condom.
And GF, we do use protection.
My main question was is there any way to
stop it.
JackJill - I apologise unreservedly for my
rude answer to you. I misunderstood the
reason for the understandable concern you
have in your post.
My reply was crass and insensitive.
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ImportRacer8107
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Joined: 10 Oct 2007 Posts: 13 Location: Champlain, NY, USA
I Even Do It Posted: 10-12-07 12:52pm
Heck I even do the same thing as your
boyfriend. I just didn't worry about it,
except my girlfriend wants the same thing
you want. Skin on Skin, I told her no
because I don't trust my self. So she
understood and we just deal with the
condoms. But it's precum thats all.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 10-12-07 13:38pm
Thanks tibbs and welcome to the board!
If a penis goes into a vagina, even if you
pull out, there is still a chance of
pregnancy- so good job importracer for
telling your gf no!
But the op is on birth control, so she's
fine with whatever they are comfortable
with.
and no
there is no way to stop him from dripping
its going to happen
