She needs to figure out what feels good for her by herself first. If she doesn't know, how can she expect you to know?
So it's her first time masterbating, yes? She will need to be relaxed and not to expect too much. Is her clit so sensitive that it can't be touched, even by herself? If so, she can try touching it through her underwear (yes, this does work) so it's not a direct pressure. She might get used to it. When she's found out what works for her, she can show you and direct you on what to do.
Once you've figured out what to do with your fingers, then you'll know what to do with your tongue. It takes a lot of exploration to make sex feel good, so don't worry if it takes a few attempts. You'll get there!

I've never had an orgasm but the other day I was on here and found out that alot of women use vibrating tooth brushes on their clits to get an orgasm. So I went to the store bought one and ohh myy goooddd. It worked the night I used it and like I said I've never had an orgasm so this was amazing to me, hope it work for her. Also, make sure its a extra soft brush so it doesn't hurt her. Have fun!!!!

How does she expect you to make her cum if she doesn't even know how to herself? Let her do it on her own and let her give herself an orgasm before you try to.

Just to add this in- if she's not used to masturbating, she might feel really awkward doing so in front of you, and don't force her to. It's great to suggest it, but if she's not familiar with her 'special places' she might feel too weird and that might kill the mood. So many girls are unclear about how to please themselves, and forcing isn't a good way to do it. (Not that I think you are!)

Ok anyway- tips on how to deal with a really sensitive clit (I have one too!)

I don't usually touch it directly. The labia minora (right around the vagina) are a good tool in this case. You can sort of close the lips around your clit and rub through them- you'll feel the sensation in a really great way, but it won't hurt or tickle too much for her to handle. Try that! Or your tongue- it's softer than fingers so it is easier on the clit. If you're going to use your fingers (or hers) put lube on them first, otherwise there could be too much friction.

It will take exploration and an open mind - go in with the attitude that you'll have fun and feel good, but not with the goal of orgasm. That will just come naturally.

Also, vibrators are always great.....

I'm glad to hear that the people here helped you!

I have a very sensitive clit, and I had a really hard time orgasming with my guy (I've yet to orgasm during sex). However I do have some suggestions that might help her! Water can be a really good tool. You can let the fact of the tube just wash over, and you can adjust the pressure by using your hands over the facet. It's very self-exploratory, and for a first timer it can be embarrassing, so just be encouraging, but not too much otherwise she'll feel like she HAS to! If you have a removable shower head, sometimes those come with different settings that feel good.

My favorite spot, after being a little stimulated, is beneath the clit. It's sensitive, but there's enough flesh there to keep from over stimulating! Lube, spit, anything like that is really good, because friction can be waaay too much for a really sensitive girl. Tongues are really soft and smooth, but can apply a good pressure too, so that's probably why girls like it so much haha

I have a suggestion though. It was always a surefire way for me to orgasm with my guy. Lay down on your back, and have your girl 'sit' on your face, supporting her weight with her knees beside your head. She can adjust where, how hard, how much, all just with little shifts of her body. It can really help her discover what she likes, while still letting you in on the process! It takes a while for me (about 20-30 min for me), but it feels AMAZING. It's also a plus for couples that like a little powerplay, or just want to explore it a little. haha Best of luck to you, and any who read this!

its very simple think of it like this "the vagina is a boat you want to concentrate on the little man in the boat" hes front and center sticking out on his own. aim for him and youll be a God lol. soft loving licks i too am sensitive so use soft sucking and licking front and center just above the vag opening you cant miss it, good luck guys.

You sound very concerend about your partner's pleasure and that's about the most helthy attitude you can have starting out in sex. I'm going to give you the most useful advise that I never listenned to as a young man. STOP WORRYING ABOUT MAKING YOUR GIRLFIRNED CUM! She will orgasm on her own terms and there isn't a thing you can do about it other than continue to turn her on and make her feel good. If your girlfriend loves getting you off in bed and appreciates the intimacy you are a star in the bedroom. If she isn't complaining that you don't make her cum odds are her orgasm is a lot less important to her than to you, especially if she's not orgasmic when she masterbates. Obsessing about her orgasm is likely hurting her self esteem as she tries to figure out why she can't give you what you want. Just be happy you're with this girl, believe me its increadible enough without worrying about her orgasm.

Wolf i reckon thats the best thing ive ever heard.

Tell me though is it just a hand fall of men that like giving there girls foreplay, coz ive not found one yet who seems happy to give it.
More ill do it coz i have to, which def puts me off.
Oh and how the hell do u give a really gd bj.

none of my bfs have complained b4, but the current one is really horny all the time, like 24/7 and he says im not too gd at bj's so works on the basis practice makes perfect lol.

So any advice?
I figure once i can please him then its his turn. lol

Well really you ought to start a new topic and your questions aren't so much medical but I guess there's some health advice in there.
Foreplay is a skill. It's not some kind of tit-for-tat exchange. Experienced lovers just provide it automatically. Men do not need it to become aroused and don't instinctively understand that women need it. Most men are receptive to anything involving sex. If your boyfriend is as horny as you say, just tell him he's going to be handling you and kissing you a bit before sex and he's on board. Give him explicit instructions, seriously explicit, point where you want him to go, movie his head or hands where you need them. When he's doing the right thing tell him it's good. If he's not ringing your bell he's not going to figure it out by trial and error, you have to be his instructor.

As far as giving a blowjob there is no button you can press to make a blowjob better. There are a multitude of different things you can do with your mouth and hands that he will like or not. For more information there are 100s of books on the topic, any of which will have useful advice regardless of your skills, a more adult forum would be a great place to ask for information about books you could look for. I'd suggest no matter what you get that you find a book with lots of pictures, a lot of male fine anatomy can be difficult to visualize if you don't have your own penis as a reference tool. Most major cities have groups that provide adult education in giving a blowjob, if you can convince your boyfriend to go you could learn an amazing amount from instruction from an adult educator. Also about 50% of a blowjob is attitude and confidence. As silly as it sounds, watch lots of porn. That's the benchmark men will judge your blowjob by. If you're not sure if you look sexy enough, try giving him oral in front of a mirror so you can see what he's looking at. Most importantly keep in mind a blowjob is not a test you have to pass, it is a tool to demonstrate your affection for your partner and a method to increase intimacy, kind of like a hug turned up to 11. If you're not enjoying giving him pleasure with your mouth it's not something you're ever going to be great at in spite of yourself and you may want to look at other forms of foreplay.