What to do @ son's anger problem? Posted: 10-09-07 13:59pm
Hi..
My names ali i have a 15 month old
son,...&&& he has a horrrrible anger
problem!!! I dont know what to do about
it,...when something sets him off,...he
will smash his head againts the nearest
walll repeatedly...an of course i stop him
when he does this,..but its gettin to the
point hes doin it so much hes leaving
bruises all over his head. He also will
bite himself until the point where his
skin will tear if he wont get his way. Is
this normal?? Well i dont think it is cuz
its horrible but i mean has anyone else
gone thru this wit their kids???? An what
should i do??? Nothing seems to work he
just keeps gettin worst & worst....
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young Girl
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Posted: 10-09-07 14:04pm
hi hun wlecome to the forums
first off please do not post in all caps.
it looks like your screaming at us and
users on here dont like when people post
in caps
second you may wanna post this in baby
talk and parenting
im sure you'll get more replies there!
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Mabel
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Posted: 10-09-07 14:07pm
*posting all in caps is considered yelling
on forums*
You should look into some parenting books
at your local library and possibly take
your son to see his pediatrician to rule
out anything that may be going on with him
medically.
To answer your question, no, it isn't
normal behavior. But that does not mean it
is wrong. Children start their 'terrible'
2's after their first birthday. He is
pushing you to see how far you will go.
I suggest comforting him when he starts to
behave this way. Always keep the same
limits and keep the same schedule.
Children need things to remain constant.
Same bedtimes. Same naptimes. Same feeding
schedule. Same rules. Etc.
There should be an extensive parenting
section at your local library.
Good luck!!
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ali1717
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Oct 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 10-09-07 15:56pm
heyy sorry,..i never came here b4 so i
dont know the rules or how things are
here,..i didnt kno there was a section for
parenting either,..i jus kinda looked on
here quick an figured someone must have
kids on here. but thanks to you who
responded ... now i kno not to
use caps lol
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VeeVee77
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2008 Posts: 6 Location: montreal, qc., canada
Posted: 01-27-08 14:05pm
You don't have to appoligize to anyone.
You're a worried, busy mommy and don't
have time to worry about "oups! writing in
caps is bad"... Who ever the
<girlfriend> is, she thinks you're
not as "P. Diddy as her
anyway and who is busy getting her nails
done & on the internet most of the
time while you & I are actually naive
enough to think that coming on here would
give us any real peace of mind... You do
the best you can, because that's all you
can do. Your son IS NORMAL, he is behaving
like I'm sure many do (even though their
mommies say they are perfect.) I know you
are not the first to have this happen but
it seems that way to you. Talk to your
childs Dr. instead next time, & I
suggest you look up; What to expect The
Toddler years. Even though my son is only
6 months old, my girlfriend got me this
book for X-mas, she said it became her
bible with her daughter( who is now nearly
four).
The best to you & your little man.
... now i kno not to
use caps lol