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Q: Oral Sex?
asked by: steph316 on October 8th, 2007
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My boyfriend wants me to give him oral sex...Do any of you have suggestions for how to do it best? Also, I'm wondering what it's like when he ejaculates; whether it tastes bad and whether or not I should swallow it.
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Tylanas
replied on October 8th, 2007
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Do YOU want to give him oral sex?

1. Unless you've seen a clean bill of health from an STD check, use a condom. This means you don't have to worry about the taste of semen or whether or not to swallow.

2. It is safe to swallow if you do go unprotected. Taste varies from man to man.

3. Go slow, lick around, explore, and pay attention to his responses!

4. DO NOT try to deep throat. There's no point, and it's difficult. Most of the sensitivity of a penis is on the head, so pay attention to that.

5. Get your hands involved! A technique that works well for me is to place a fist around the shaft, pressed up against my lips. I go up and down that way. The shaft gets pressure, and my throat remains unbruised Wink
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Georgia59
replied on October 8th, 2007
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You can swallow if you like, or not. It's really up to you.

As for the taste- all men taste different, and they taste different on different days too! I think it has to do with what they eat or something. I know for a fact that sometimes my guy tastes really bad, and sometimes I can't taste anything at all. Give it a try though, even when it's bad it's not that bad.

As for technique, anything goes! Suck, kiss, lick, nibble (very very gently!) everything. Ask him what he likes, he's probably masturbated enough to tell you!
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sillysallie1990
replied on October 8th, 2007
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be sure to buy condoms made for oral sex because regular latex tastes totally disgusting...even peanut butter can not take the taste away!!! Laughing

all i can say is different guys like different things lol just go for it and ask him to tell you when you do something he likes and to show you how he likes it. I have found that my man likes for me to vary my technique so slip some suprises in there evry once in a while. the hand thing thateiri talked about works very well. Very Happy
hope this helps and good luck!!
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silentbear777
replied on October 9th, 2007
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For oral with a guy, make sure first he is clean. NO STD's. most guys like a lot of differnt things, buy a vast majority of the feeling is in the head, actually when getting intimate a guy cant really feel anything below 1/2 an inch of the head really. so dont worry about getting a lot into your mouth... as for taste... usually salty, kinda bitter, depends on the diet of the person, a lot of red meat will cause it to be more bitter and astringent... sharp tasteing. More sweets... like Chocolate, will cause it to be more sweet... naturallys sweet things like Tea, will help... And as for swallowing, that is up to you, there is nothing bad about it. There are 14 calories of Protien on average. no more then a small bite of steak so have fun. And one advice, is try and keep your teeth from sliding against him lol it doesent feel good >_<
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Tylanas
replied on October 9th, 2007
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As for teeth, that varies from man to man! My last bf LOVED teeth. Some guys hate it. Give a nibble and see how he reacts.

But no teeth if you're using a condom!!
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emerald1
replied on October 9th, 2007
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My new bf loves for me to use my teeth and also likes for me to lick underneath the head.
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Rosie H
replied on October 9th, 2007
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Have fun, thats my advise. oh and do what everyone else said.

One thing to spice it up is ice. Crush it in your mouth and then go down on him the cold sensation could be really hot. Or stick your hand in the freezer and then touch him or his balls.

Please ASK BEFORE you do this. Some guys would not like it.
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Roberta777
replied on October 9th, 2007
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I totally loved giving my boyfriend oral sex. He loved watching me as I gave him pleasure. To hear him moaning was great. Use your tongue to make sweet little upward licks onto the head of his penis. Just kiss and love it as you love your man.

There is truth to what Georgia and Eiri said. Different foods do affect the taste of a man.

I was never into oral sex until this man came into my life. I guess when you really love someone, it is a great part of being completely with them.

Someone once wrote in to this forum, "Before you feast on the penis platter, make sure your partner is free from STD's." Good, sound advise.

And, oral sex is great for both partners. Has he ever initiated oral sex to give you pleasure. Remember, it is a two way street in lovemaking.

Sounds like you have a lot of adventure ahead of you.
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silentbear777
replied on October 9th, 2007
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Rosie H wrote:
Have fun, thats my advise. oh and do what everyone else said.

One thing to spice it up is ice. Crush it in your mouth and then go down on him the cold sensation could be really hot. Or stick your hand in the freezer and then touch him or his balls.

Please ASK BEFORE you do this. Some guys would not like it.



Eww... Ice, I dont like ice >_> Though one of my friends says she loves having sex with an icecube inside her... though not my personal cup of tea lol
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JackJill
replied on October 11th, 2007
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Silentbear, although you're right about the natural sugar making a man taste sweeter, chocolate will actually make you taste bitter. Pineapple and citrus fruit is probably the best. Basically if your mister eats a healthy diet, he's liable to taste better or be tasteless.
As for technique, deep throating is hard. Eiri is right, you can bruise the back of your throat, and it's painful. Don't let him thrust into your mouth like he does your vagina, because you might throw up. There's this thing called a gag reflex Razz
Some people overcome it, some people have a really sensitive gag reflex.
With deep throating the guys only really like it because every body says it feels the best. It's actually the same sensation as if you pursed your lips and pushed his head through them while gripping his shaft. It's really up to you.
You could also twist your head as you're going down his shaft. My man loves that. the sensation is great, and it's probably the same motion when he masturbates. Watch him masturbate, it's a great way to find out how he pleases himself and what feels best for him.
Other than that, when you're going down on him enjoy it. I love every inch of my man's penis, and I let him see and feel that. He should reciprocate when he's going down on you.
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WShep
replied on October 11th, 2007
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Dude again....but every guys different.

1. I loved the heat.

2. I hate the hands.

3. Deep throat or more than just an inch down was great cuz my girl could do it without even a flinch, thats for you to decide. Thrusting=bad bad bad, id get a little nibble if I started to with a little evil eye...all the response i needed to stop. The side mouth technique and using your lips can indeed cause the same feeling, but i still like the former more.

4. It has as much to do with watching and being totally serviced as it does the feeling, I agree with that.

5. If i got mine, she sure as heck wanted hers.

We both would grab a part of the one doing the servicing; hand, shoulder wrist etc.. Feels good?...give him a squeeze.....not feeling good?.... lack of squeezing told me to mix it up. Took me a few times to learn that you can over sensitize that spot, wouldn't know if she didn't tell me.

The taste thing is funny. We were together for 4 years so stds werent an issue as we were both checked. Some days it was bitter....some days it was like nothing...im totally lost as to why that is, gotta be diet or frequency of ejaculation.
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