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stay_classy

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Been to Doctor But Nothing Wrong.
Posted: 10-08-07 07:11am

Hello,

Basic back ground stuff, I'm 20 years old, doing a sport to international standard so extremely fit and have a really healthy diet.

I had pain in my groin about 2 years ago and the pain decended down into my testicals and was very uncomfortable. went to the doctor, he checked for a hernia, testicals and also did a prostate exam. ^ weeks ago the same pain came back but feels nearly behind the testicals so i immeiately thought prostate. Went back to the doc knowing that it was probably a groin strain today, however he didn't check the prostate which was a bit annoying.

Basically i've only ever had a couple of sexual partners and been with my current one for a year and a half. I only had sex for the first time at 18 and had been out drinking so lasted a very long time, not sure exactly but i remeber her saying "you could go on all night" so i'm guessing a while. However anytime i have slept with my current girlfriend i come within several thrusts most times with the max being just over a minute and this is with durex preforma condom on!. I am circumcised and feel the glans of my penis are very sensitive. However anytime we have sex after a night of drinking(which is not very often due to training!) i last much longer.

I get erections extremely easily and while kissing her and during foreplay i feel nearly overexcited and like it won't take much stimulation to ejaculate and then upon intercourse it only takes a few thrusts.

The doctor just said it was psycological and that over time should correct itself.

I'm currently trying the stop start masturbation and keegles hoping they will help and next time we have sex i'm going to put the preforma condom on a few mins before intercourse as it has been suggested that works,

do most guys my age suffer from this and what do you guys think from what i've told you? I've reading the complete premature ejaculation thread but it all seemed to go towards drugs which i want to avoid!

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Posted: 10-08-07 09:31am

Well a few things I can think of, though the PE thread is really great and I don't want to repeat what has been said on there too much-

Drinking causes less sensitivity, which is why you noticed that you lasted longer when you were drunk. However, it probably makes the experience less enjoyable for you so I probably wouldn't recommend that.

As you age, it will probably get better. Your hormones will calm down and you'll be able to last longer.

In the meantime, keep working on what you are working on. And during sex, try to take the pressure off yourself. Stimulate the girl manually/orally before sex so she can orgasm and you don't feel pressured to please her, then when you are near the end of the night you can go ahead with intercourse, knowing that it's ok if you only last a minute because you already spent so much time on her! Sound good?

Good luck.
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