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Q: Weird Pain Too Deep? Or Is It a Problem On Her Side?
asked by: Iky1337 on October 8th, 2007
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Ok me and my Gf have just recently been having sex. Id say we have had sex about 12 times. She has said that it hurts her when i go deep. It doesnt hurt when i enter her and it doesnt hurt when im inside. Ex. She gets on top and its all good, but the moment i thrust my penis upward she says that it feels like air is being pushed up. Also when we go Doggystyle she says that she feels the same pain. I know those two positions are two that allow deep penetration. She is of a smaller build and i am of a bigger build. Can it be that i am going to deep? If anyonehas experienced a problem even close to this please share. I love my girlfriend and if all i have to do is not go so deep than that is surely one easy step that i can take. <3 to all that help.
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Tylanas
replied on October 8th, 2007
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Of course it hurts if you go too deep! Her vagina is not infinite Razz There is a cervix where the vagina ends and hitting the cervix is extremely painful for many women. Kind of like getting kicked in the nads. Repeatedly, especially if you don't stop thrusting.

And yes, I know this from experience. I've had sex be too deep, and it hurts! It can feel like air being pushed up, and then a sharp pain that fills your stomach.
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Georgia59
replied on October 8th, 2007
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I agree. Just keep trying different positions that allow for more shallow penetration, such as her on top or bottom, but with her legs together, or spooning, or her on top and in control- you can't thrust!!

Keep trying, you'll figure it out.
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xsgtpsychotic
replied on October 8th, 2007
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Just try to find a position where you can feel satisfied with your depth and her too. The first moderator is right, if you go too deep you can hit her cervix, and that hurts lik e hell! It's happened to me before, and it can completely ruin the experience if you hurt her too badly, lol. Just be careful.
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emerald1
replied on October 9th, 2007
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My bf is very big and if he goes in too deep its real painful and it ends up hitting my cervix. Just try to more careful with your gf and not go in all the way.
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scrappster
replied on June 29th, 2009
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I had this problem recently! It really hurts, like a sharp stinging sensation deep inside. But sometimes it can kinda feel good, as long as the girl is really aroused and at the right 'time'. I read that the cervix shifts positions sometimes.

It's one of the bad things for big guys, they can't go as buckwild as they want. Don't be afraid to try different things that you're both comfortable with! And if something is painful or uncomfortable, make sure to stop and try something else. Sex is most enjoyable when both partners are comfortable and pain free. (though sometimes a little discomfort/pain is ok, depending on what each partner likes. Like I really don't like going down on a guy, but it's not unbearable and I'll do it every now and then as a 'gift' to my man.) Good luck Very Happy
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