hey hun, do u mean bigger ones can become more uncomfortable later on? or littler ones?
Like i mentioned in an earlier post have largish ones and am actually already finding it stightly uncomfortable down there, i feel like i can't wear tight jeans etc like my friends do and am constantly having to reajust myself....feel a bit like a bloke having to thoguh!
i know exactly how you feel hun, im 19 years of age and ive suffered from a large labia but im too scared and embarrased to talk to anyone, i must have noticed it at the age of pueberty (age 12) since then it just seems to have got bigger over the years, its extremely uncomfortable and im suffering from hygiene reasons (essesive discharge which gets all over them, no matter how many times i wipe nothing seems to work and gets rather smelly i have to wash it constantly and my underwear and jeans are never the same again...its horrible!!!) i plucked up the courage to go to the doctors and all they said was it was normal (how the hell can this be normal...your meant to wipe front to back...i can only wipe back to front as they get in the way) im so embarrassed and i dont like being adventurous sexually with my partner the lights have to be off and definately under the cover, i wont even let him go down on me, ive recently had a little boy aswell and they have just stretched so bad it looks like i have a big bulge in my underwear not to mention catching it on my jeans, ive watche programmes where they say its normal and most of the percentage of woman have them, ive looke at it a few times in the mirror an it looks like one saggy scrunched up mess, bend over and look it looks like something from an animal (like how a dogs parts sit) im so concious of this and im fed u of the doctors who say im worrying over nothing!!!! all i can say is your all not alone and i wish someone would start a compaine where woman who suffer with this can get FREE help instead of being classed as PLASTIC SURGERY i personally think its a medical condition especially if your suffering from hygiene reasons by it
As for the saggy breasts, most of the women who do porn have fake breasts. you can tell that they have had them done after you see a really obvious badly done one. Also they lie or pose in a particular way so that you can't tell that they are saggy, normally with their hands above their heads or behind them and their chest pushed up. I don't know if it is appropriate to link to an example so i won't.
You can do push ups and it will help a little bit to make them more perky looking. also if you have stretch marks on your breasts you can use cocoa butter on them. if you use it five times a day they will fade in about 6 months to a year. just take a jar with you and apply it when you go to the loo. It also makes your skin look really nice.Also wear a nice bra, if you have big boobs like that I expect you wear a DD or E cup or bigger which is difficult to find in the shops.
About your nipples, you can use the cocoa butter on them too. but if you have large breast you will have large nipples and when you get cold or turned on, they will look all crinkly like that.
About your labia, there is not much you can do about that. you can do squats and and the kegel exercises that tightens up the area and they will go in a little bit, so its a lot less noticeable and won't stick out as much.
About surgery, just to remind you, they cut you with a knife and it leaves scars, especially on your boobs. Also not all surgeons are good or sane or do a good job all the time.
About your self image, you need to stay away from one night stands, if you can. Make better friends with your existing friends, it can take a long time to find a good man and you will need them to call on! Wait until you can find a good man who knows you aren't perfect but loves you anyway. One who will not go on and on about things that make you feel really insecure even if he is really, really, angry with you.
About your insecurity, you need to be on the look out for ways you can improve your self image, and I would recommend that you go out and do things that you enjoy so you can cancel out the bad feelings it is generating.
Good luck and remember doctors, especially plastic surgeons are greedy, money grabbing b****** who prey on your insecurity to feed the luxuriant lifestyle they lead. (just joking, not all doctors are like that, just plastic surgeons)
Well, I'm a man, and I'm sorry, but I think all this fuss about female parts is really sad. I also think fake breast, well, who what to feel a fake breast, I know I don't. I alway wonder what a women would think if all us men then all women want is a big penis, so we got these big fake ones put on, how would you girls feel about that. In all seriousness, let your body parts be natural, yea, sure yours may be bigger or smaller than someone elses, but thats the way things are. I know, I really like to see natual breast, stomachs, breast etc... they are great to look at. Sorry thats just me, but if you girls or women find someone who doesn't like it, move on, there will be someone who does, and who likes you for you, however you are.
hey guys im 16 and have the labia thing, and i am so embarrased to say anything to any one and just dont know what to do, people on here saying not to worry about it and its normal but it doesnt seem normal, i just dont know what to do my self confidence is bad becuase of it.
OMG well im only 18 and i neva had big boobs i was a AA all the way through school then i was in year 11 they grew really quickly to a 34 c/d then as i put on a bit of weight they went up to 34 DD then E now an 34 F but they are not nice and firm they are low and have stretch marks and also my areola is really BIG they really get me down I think an uplift is due but i dont want to have kids and they go back again WHAT SHALL I DO!!!!
I think everyone is different if it really bothers u get surgery I have larger labia after I gave birth to 2 kids so I dnt knw if maby u want to wait until after u have children cause it might be a waste of money then just some advice If the guy really liked u or whatever he wouldnt care cause if u really liked the guy would u care if he had somethin alittle differnt down there goin on and dnt pay attention to the pornos they fix theose videos up like airbrush their bodies and photochop stuff so im sure they make their labias smaller
I'm 13 going on 14 and have the same problem. And am so* embarissed, not only is it "bigger" it's like discolored like a grayish color. Clearly the whole bigger labia thing isn't a medical issue but I was wondering if the discoloredness is? I tryed to tell me mom and she didn't really say much she kind of just laughed. I just really would like to know. Please please please help. And sorry for the lack of vocabulary and bad spelling...
Ripeadori is arrogant, but she's got a point!
Red_Rose, you should shut up your trap for good and your account is the one that should be removed. You have spread nothing but rage, you scare people. Get out of here.
I have both problems. I'm 24 and was very overweight as a child (thanks mum) and went down from a size 20 to size 10 in less than a year after moving out at 17. My boobs went from a perky DD cup to nothing but saggy skin (the same happened to the rest of my body). You can see the veins and tissue in them! It's horrific! I wear a doubled padded wonderbra every day to give me some sort of shape and never wear low cut tops as the skin just hangs over the top of the bra - and yes I've tried bigger cup sizes, but they simply move when my skin does! I hate my boobs - they make me sick!
As for the labia thing - I have HALF a large labia! One side is a 'normal' size and shape and slightly extended, but the other size (and I have measued it) extends nearly 4cm. It used to be about 2.5cm, but over the years I have caught it so many times and it has bled so many times that it has stretched even further and now has no feeling at all. I have considered cutting it off myself as there is so much scar tissue already that I wouldn't feel much. I cannot wear tampons, thongs, bikinis/swimming costumes and as I have very heavy periods, the mess is disgusting! I can never stay completely clean! I have given up trying to find a normal relationship with sex as it (again) gets caught and rips.
I have not been able to find any pictures of a woman with such a problem as this! I would be happy with large labia like the women in the 'before' photos. I don't even care if they are the same on either side but this is a f*****g medical issue NOT cosmetic! Constantly ripping/scarring part of your body is NOT normal!
I have had to move back home while I save up for private surgery as doctors refuse to do anything and keep giving me cream or pain killers! I am appalled by the NHS!!
I apologise for my language, but is it a disgrace the way the NHS agrees to treat patients who have gorged themselves to obesity or smoked twenty a day to damage their lungs or drank through bottle after bottle of whisky until their liver was destroyed and yet I can work hard to stay fit and healthy and have to borrow money for surgery for this!
I am happy to pay for my breast/skin surgery as that is due to the way I look and causes me no real pain, but this is just wrong!
I should add that I don't agree with men not having similar body issues - some of my closest male friends have admitted to having the same sort of hang ups (lack of muscles, saggy balls, small panis, etc). It seems magazines don't like to print this though. However angry I am with the NHS, I do think it's a good idea for people to talk about these things and not get all of their opinions and information from the porn industry and airbrushed magazines.
hey everyone!...i found this forum because of looking for info. on my labia also...but, it's not because they are larger, but quite the opposite!...they are average I guess you would say, and do not stick out at all...but,I watch porn with my boyfriend sometimes and all I seem to see is women with larger labia!!...there are times that I have felt like my labia were kinda boring because they are too small to like pierce with jewelry or do other "interesting" things with!...he totally thinks women with all kinds of labia are beautiful, and I have to say that I agree with him...all of us girls should be proud of the bodies we have been given and do the best with what we have!...so many people have way worse issues than worrying about labia, and they go on with life and live it to the fullest! I think that if any man turns down a woman he so called "loves" just because of her labia, he's not worth it anyway, and good riddance!!...there are defenitely gorgeous women out here with bigger labia, so stop worrying and enjoy your sex life!!!...
For all the women with beautiful and large labia lips, you do not know the gift God gave you. I do not know any men with a 14 inch tool complaining. It is a gift from God to have more to work with. I am not a vegetarian. Therefore, large labia lips just melts in your mouth. I have been looking for a woman with large labia lips and clitoris for years and was not successful. I came across two in my entire life and both of them were married and not available. Please do not have a clitoropexy operation without talking to me first. You are not aware of how much you can make some special men happy. If you have a large labia and are in your 20s or 30s, slim to average figure, race is not important, please reply with your email and I will get back to you for more information.
Hey, i also suffer with large labia. I have been sorely tempted to get a labia reduction procedre, but in all honesty, im not that bothered about it anymore. I think it's all about confidence. I mean, not every woman is the picture or perfection! Although i strongly suggest you stop comparing yourself to other people, your feeding the fire doing that. I accept that im not the ideal woman, but who cares! A few of my friends are gorgeous, practially supermodel material, but they are still single. It's all about personality. So quit worrying about how you look and enjoy your life!! You can't be that repulsive if you are sexually active with people! =)
Hey! I have been unhappy with my labia for quite a while, as well. While I do not think they are extremely big, watching adult videos has made me worry that they were bigger than they are supposed to be. Then I remembered reading in a magazine that a girl had a similar porn-induced worry, and the advice of the columnist was that the porn industry is made to look dazzling, sexy, perfect, ideal when really they are only putting out commercialized, styled, glossy images of what society has told us is perfection. It is what is natural that is truly beautiful, so put down the adult magazines, shut off the adult videos, and get out into the real world where you will see that there is big and small, neither is "right" and BOTH are right.
Secondly, I would like to just say that I must stand up for the 45 year old man. Yes, I am all for female empowerment (and am actually taking a whole semester on the history of the US through the eyes of women) but it seems that the guy was just expressing his support for the woman who posted this thread and not necessarily putting down others. I enjoyed reading his post and feel that he was just stating an opinion, not an insult.
And finally, I know this is just the internet but could users please try to type a bit more correctly. It mag be my Virgo tendencies or my English teacher getting the better of me but an acknowledgement of the difference between then and than is all I ask.
I literally have the exact same problem as you, the weight, the dieting, skinny mother (and sister!), pretty much identical. I'm starting to think from looking up stuff about large labias that maybe it's not that unattractive to men but I do other things like horseback ride, run, softball and it gets in the way or leads to complications during sex, so I'm still 50/50 on whether I would want to change them. As for my breasts..they look like a grannys chest or "moobs" literally the biggest insecurity. I REALLYYY want/need a breast lift but $$$$ is not available for this. My friends vaginas and breast also aren't like mine in any way, even my friend who gets occasional hairs on her nipples still doesn't have the sagging breasts of a post menopausal woman. My mother doesn't even know about these insecurities let alone some of my other very close friends so I have never been to a doctor for it and have only been told to love my body as it is..How are you suppose to love something that disgusting..focussing on your better assets also doesn't help..it's only a temporary distraction!
You are my DREAM girl! I say that with 100% sincerity. I personally love (worship) large labia and saggy breasts. I love them. You have nothing to worry about. The world is full of guys that will appreciate you for being you!
this is a total bull*** website. it is meant to make women feel bad about their bodies to drive them to doctors who will cut open their breasts and insert silicone or saline bags to plump them up. yuck!!! and as far as labia is, it comes in all shapes and sizes like your eyes, nose, fingers and feet and any woman who would cut that off is being led by sick puppies, be it your boyfriend or husband or what you read on the internet or the very twisted doctors that will tell you that you are abnormal "down there". these very sick and twisted doctors went to medical school and they will tell you all kind of things they can do to you to make your normal and they need your money to pay for their mortgage, hot babes, wives, tuitions, gambling habits. run far away from all of them, love yourself and find a man who will love you the way you are, develop positive thoughts about yourself and educate yourself which will in the long run make you far sexier than any body part.
I don't know if anyone's still looking at this, but it would be really great if I get some guys' opinions! I have a large labia too. I think the largest I've ever seen compared to pictures I've looked up! It really grosses me out, especially since I'm a pretty small girl (5 feet tall, average weight)! I get so concerned about what guys think..I'm too scared to get really sexual and I'm 21 (also haven't found the right guy yet). And all the labias I've seen in pictures seem really thin, but mine are really thick. =( They just hang down, probably about an inch long. Other girls on other threads said there's were 2 or 21/2 inches long, but mine still seem horrible! I really don't want to have surgery because there can be complications, but I've been single for far too long because of my insecurities (none of them even bothering with this until now!). I know I'm pretty! I've been told! but still we girls hate ourselves. by the way, sorry for the details..but I just had to let it out!