I orgasm much more when I masturbate. It's very very hard if not near impossible for me to orgasm during sex. The few times I did it was nothing like when I masturbate, it felt completly diffrent. I guess it's normal for women not to orgasm from penitration. But it's still kinda dissapointing. If my boyfriend ever found out it would break his heart.

Same. I orgasm from clitoral stimulation, not my vagina. This is very normal, and it is how most women orgasm. So, it's way easier for my to orgasm via masturbation with my clitoris than it is during sex. The few times I've orgasmed during sex have been because of clitoral stimulation and orgasm from that, and not an orgasm due to penis in my vagina.

I think that's normal, especially because during sex you aren't only worried about yourself, but your partner too. There's no reason to feel bad about it!

masterbation deffinetly as you only have to worry about yourself and not your partner aswell. I love my partner making me have an orgasm as he helps to give me pleasure.

I dont know if I am allowed to post comments here... so let me know if I cant >_> Anyway, a tip if you wanted them for when your with your boyfriend, try to hint him that you want him to grind against you... he can use his body to give you clitoral stimulation. Or you can use your fingers in combination with his thrusting. Like masterbateing. Try rideing too. You can grind your hips against him and get the same feeling. Hope it helps!

i've heard many women say that they come from clitoral stimulation... but i'm the opposite. i can't make myself come at all, and i've tried to masturbate and it just doesn't work, but when i have sex i come multiple times. i have no problem with that but i feel like i'm weird for not being able to do it myself.

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Keys- I am mostly the exact same way. I found I can orgasm from a really good vibrator, or my man. But not my hands, (or his for that matter, or his tongue!)

I don't know if it's a mental thing or what, but it works for me. I still get my share of manual and oral sex because I told him I need it to get lubricated (I do) and then we always finish with sex. It works out well for me.

I can orgasm only with the combination of clitoral stimulation and penetration. So I need hobby to penetrate me while I am massaging my clitoral. Missing either one, I can't orgasm. So silentbear777's suggestion is good, although grinding doesn't do enough for me.