I agree with your husband.

You are exactly right, and he just demonstrated why he shouldn't have a say.


Why do you care how many abortions a woman has? 9 out of 10 zefs are naturally aborted as it is.

But in most marriages and between most couples, this already is the case. You don't need a law to force this. The only people who would suffer under such a law would be women in abusive relationships.

This exact question went to the Supreme Court and they struck it down for the very reason I just stated.

I never once said that this should be a law. I was asked on my personal opinion on whether the father should have a say in the matter. In a mature, adult, stable relationship, the father would probably have something to say in the matter.

It is MY belief (not saying it should be a law) that the decision to keep or abort a baby should be made *as a couple*

Please read the post in its entirety before trying to tear through my opinions.

I already had this discussion with Jinks, so if you would like to know my opinion, read through it. I'm not going to explain my opinions over and over again. You don't have to agree with them, I could care less. I was asked.

Are you capable of debating without insults?

No, he isn't.

I'm not sure that someone like that should be parenting.





I have had an abortion and I have never stated such a thing.

You hadn't posted about your experience.
I was talking about those who have told me it was horrible on here... I haven't run into anyone yet who has had a good abortion experience...
Nice to meet you

Give me a break!! So not only do you want to control other women but now you want to stop women from teaching their children they don't have to be sheep? THey can stand on their own?
I am not sure YOU should be parenting..

And if you don't like Marianne parenting you sure as hades won't like me doing it..
YOu see my now 18 year old college student daugther is very Pro-choice and I couldn't be prouder of her! She doesn't back down when she feels strongly about something. She posts on Girlnation, as I do, I'd like to get her here but she has little time these days for postings..homework don'tcha know..

Being pregnant was the horrible part for me. The actual abortion lasted 5 minutes and I immediately felt 100% better. My vomitting, nausea, head and backache all went away.

I have posted on here about my abortion experience. The actual abortion was the easiest part - the pregnancy was horrendous, not to mention the mental anguish associated with the pregnancy. Oh, goodness, how very badly I did not want to be pregnant...

I concur. Most women on here actually had good abortion experiences. I don't know who's story you've heard that was so horrible...

However, there are plenty of bad experiences, and for those women, abortion may not have been the best choice.

I don't find my posts insulting! Where is the insult. I spoke my mind, I think that is good to do here!

Of course. Abortion is not a panacea. It is the right choice for the right woman. Just like I don't like peanut butter... doesn't mean we should make it illegal

Now you compare your dislike of peanut butter to an abortion. I don't approve of censorship, but I think someone should spatter peanut butter over your mouth (and keyboard), to keep your muddled opinions from the general public!

I don't like peanut butter either.. perhaps we should outlaw it after all..

hahah. I could make up many things about the evils of peanut butter.

Peanut butter has Aflatoxins in it; a carcinogen; it has trans fatty acids so therefore is bad for your heart. In order to preserve human life we need to ban peanut butter!

wow! learn something new everyday. I thought peanut butter had the good kinds of fat in them.. like peanuts.. and other nuts..